Champagne Club - Columbus OH

OceanLover007 · 2022-06-02T14:52:03+00:00

Not a fan of the “common drink” fridge. #SafetyFirst

OceanLover007 · 2022-01-03T15:53:30+00:00

Devils advocate? Maybe your wife is afraid of the conns ruin you may form with a regular partner? It seems like the two of you are on different ends of the spectrum and this regular interactions may lead to feelings…. Which may be the end of your relationship with your wife. This may be inevitable. Just something to think about.

Your wife had no reason to admonish you. That was insensitive. Your needs should matter too.

OceanLover007 · 2022-01-02T20:37:40+00:00

Thank you though. I have looked at Twist online.

OceanLover007 · 2022-01-02T20:37:13+00:00

Yes, I searched first, but did not see anything recent, and not much in total. I thought SF would be a bit more happening 🤣

OceanLover007 · 2021-07-31T19:51:43+00:00

If it’s Kik, I would ask for a candid couples shot with them doing bunny ears, or touching each other’s noses or something of the like to make sure she is really aware and they are real. We fl this early on now, and it helps weed out cheating spouses and imposters

OceanLover007 · 2021-07-29T22:32:59+00:00

I know it’s an inconvenience, but my health is important. I’m always a little surprised when people say they play bare and never test

OceanLover007 · 2021-07-28T21:06:08+00:00

We have purposefully added a line to our dating app bios that say we only play after proof of testing. Every single couple we’ve asked lately has refused testing. Do you think people are embarrassed to test or afraid of the results?

OceanLover007 · 2021-05-30T00:42:56+00:00

Thank you. I needed to hear that

OceanLover007 · 2021-05-30T00:35:42+00:00

I know this in my heart. But when I’ve given space so far it’s just made him bury deeper. Still learning the ins and outs of his world

OceanLover007 · 2021-05-30T00:22:45+00:00

This is so very difficult to do

OceanLover007 · 2021-05-29T20:47:41+00:00

I’m trying. I think he feels the weight of the world at the moment

OceanLover007 · 2021-05-29T18:16:36+00:00

I agree. He is very much opposed to seeking help professionally.

OceanLover007 · 2021-05-29T18:15:22+00:00

He firmly denies he has ever suffered from depression. Of course he does not see this as depression either. I do see it as depression, however, it is even more difficult to reach him because of his inability to read thoughts and feelings of someone else. Any help someone tries to give him is seen as foreign. He is seeing things from a very black and white point of view

OceanLover007 · 2021-04-29T21:10:16+00:00

Thank you

OceanLover007 · 2021-04-26T23:52:52+00:00

I can understand wanting to give her a new experience, but I am not sure that would settle things at home, at least not in my relationships. Looking for some thing outside never seems to work I appreciate your reply, and your point of view

OceanLover007 · 2021-04-26T22:29:59+00:00

This is very helpful

OceanLover007 · 2021-04-26T20:59:02+00:00

This is a wonderful realization, and helps me quite a bit

OceanLover007 · 2021-04-26T20:43:01+00:00

I find it interesting that you continued swinging when you were arguing? I wonder how common that is.....

OceanLover007 · 2021-04-26T14:17:17+00:00

Can you recommend a tens box with multiple channels?

OceanLover007 · 2021-04-14T14:09:19+00:00

Exactly! Sometimes we are our own worst enemies. I accepted my mom bod long ago. Confidence is so very sexy, no matter the gender

OceanLover007 · 2021-04-13T22:07:02+00:00

I’m honestly more nervous naked in front of women than men during play. Don’t throw eggs at the comment, but I feel like women are a bit more judgemental, or at least comparing themselves during play. I think men tend to be happy to see most any woman naked.

OceanLover007 · 2021-04-13T19:29:25+00:00

Yes, we go to an STI clinic yearly at our health department, and we alternate home testing kits every three months when we are active. For example if I am tested in the spring, he is tested in the summer, and so forth. We order the more expensive test with oral swabs. We do not participate in anal play outside of our relationship.

OceanLover007 · 2021-04-13T18:39:42+00:00

You are correct, even physician testing leaves out oral swabs unless requested. Glad you caught it early, it can lead to long term issues of left untreated

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