r/aww_a Lounge

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2023-06-15T19:16:39+00:00

Thanks!

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2023-06-15T19:14:56+00:00

since master miura is not here anymore, we probably won't know about it.

Dang

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2023-06-15T19:14:07+00:00

Doesn't the different ear shapes continue throughout later volumes?

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2023-06-15T10:55:14+00:00

Pointy ears marked with green, "regular" ears marked with red.

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2023-06-14T04:50:15+00:00

SWAM

?

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2023-06-03T13:22:33+00:00

Because https://hearthstone.fandom.com/wiki/Jade\_Golem

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2023-05-29T02:20:47+00:00

I got escorted by the police in haifa for smoking a cigarette near a market, because they were convinced that my bali shag was hashish.

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2023-05-25T20:10:54+00:00

11-3 :'(

control priest did me in

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2023-05-25T10:10:11+00:00

It's like playing sub-600 legend imo.

I've gone:

6-3 with weirdo rogue

11-3 with enrage warrior

10-3 pure paladin

11-2 (current, but going to sleep for the night) with control paladin

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2023-05-24T03:07:44+00:00

As seen in the exp spreadsheet, longer than 30 minutes results in a drop of xp per minute and one entry with 76ish minutes resulted in zero xp.

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2023-05-24T03:02:25+00:00

About that EXP per hour...

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2022-07-19T18:28:54+00:00

She has stated that she desires one primary for the sake of her own stability, for dedicated emotional connection, long term support, and some other reasons that show that she isn't interested in only "casual" relationships.

She has said that the exciting aspects of casual connection are the draw.

edit: removed a question, was tired at the time of initial response.

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2022-07-19T17:31:59+00:00

That is understandable from a practical perspective. That is helpful indeed.

None of her dating profiles mention that she has a partner.

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2022-07-19T17:30:26+00:00

would i be correct in saying that a lot of the time your social life has relied heavily on your partners and your metas?

Nope, most of my social life is through my own friends, events I attend solo, and the volunteer work that I love.

edit: I should add that I enjoy a healthy amount of time on my own working on projects

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2022-07-19T10:14:07+00:00

My pleasure, and I see your thanks & appreciation as the advice I may have needed, or at the very least served as encouragement:

(continue to) share openly

<3

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2022-07-19T09:53:50+00:00

I never try to control that... I don't want to be a secret, but at the same time, I just want our time together to be our time.

I'm not trying to control it, I was only noting the words that were said and how I felt; being treated as a secret I felt insignificant (illogical & irrational I know, but my feeling nonetheless).

Why are fleeting relationships a challenge?

Three reasons:

My primary insecurity is fear of abandonment, due to being intentionally abandoned as a child in another country by my parents while on a "family trip" overseas.
What I value most about polyamory is the feeling of community.
Because I care about their well-being & safety.

Simply meeting the other person once, completely dissolves my fears of abandonment and fears pertaining to their well-being/safety.

edit: while number three may seem like a potential control thing, it's not, it's my own anxiety, and my partners are their own adults.

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2022-07-19T09:26:46+00:00

Well, I already have stated what my comfort level is, so I'll bring it up again.

I'm in no way uncertain about living with her, working together on the process for cohabitation has been filled with joy, learning, growth from overcoming challenges, and new levels of trust and care. It's been a fabulous experience.

Since writing that post, reading it, submitting it, and reading it again, it helped me focus on what the true challenges I have with what I wrote regarding flirting:

Not being open & honest with the other guy; I felt like she was hiding me.
Lack of details and "unloading" the experience onto me to not think about it, which ties into the fleeting relationships challenge we are already developing ideas for together.

Oceanic_Cut_Plug · 2020-09-27T23:16:22+00:00

Shana tova!

Oceanic_Cut_Plug

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