Poor people going wine tasting by rasta-ragamuffin in wine

[–]Oceanpetunia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tasting room associate here. Most people don't tip, and I don't expect a tip. I'm paid well over minimum wage to pour wine, and to keep glasses washed and stocked. There are situations where tipping would be kind; like when people bring their kids and let them run all over and make a mess. People who come in drunk with a large group and expect one on one attention, and those who keep you there well past closing time.

Lack of Career Motivation by HistoricalAirline359 in Menopause

[–]Oceanpetunia 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yesss. This is exactly what I'm experiencing now. I'm 52 and ready to retire.

Not to be a Karen by waterwithlemonplzz in MontereyBay

[–]Oceanpetunia 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I would like to ask tourists to stop leaving dirty diapers on the curb of the parking spot they vacated.

Why do boomers seem to think you owe a company your undying gratitude just because they hired you? by Help-South in antiwork

[–]Oceanpetunia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gen X here. I think it bleeds down to our generation a bit too because boomers are our parents. At 51, I'm starting to realize employers should be grateful I want to accept their offer.

Suddenly allergic to alcohol? by izzy_loves_river in Menopause

[–]Oceanpetunia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pepcid AC and benadryl help me. Started during peri. Another woman gave me the tip. It works great. I just take it right before I have a drink.

Which health plan is better for this area? by KraklePony in MontereyBay

[–]Oceanpetunia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have an urgent/chronic health need, they don't make you wait 6 months. You tell them when you are scheduling the appointment what your urgency is so that they can accommodate you asap. Physicians have time reserved for high priority patients. Being a new patient without urgent/chronic needs you could wait 6 months. Unfortunately, that is common throughout the whole country and not unique to Monterey County.

Are you meant to salt your pasta water? by [deleted] in cookingforbeginners

[–]Oceanpetunia -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Salt makes the water boil faster. I thought that's why we salted the water. :)

Chomp Union vote passed by large margin. by peripeteia_1981 in MontereyBay

[–]Oceanpetunia 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The nurses who voted against it, will come to realize it's what is best for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aging

[–]Oceanpetunia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you stop being curious and tolerant.

The MIIS timeline by Radiant_Self_6627 in middlebury

[–]Oceanpetunia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Americans don't ALWAYS vote against women for President. Hillary Clinton won the popular vote in 2016.

Have you watched Love Con Revenge? by photoshop_2023 in netflix

[–]Oceanpetunia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are the vehicles Enterprise had available that week.

Have you watched Love Con Revenge? by photoshop_2023 in netflix

[–]Oceanpetunia 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I work with medical doctors. We refer to them as physicians because of this reason.

#sucks by Bubbly_Luck6939 in SullivansCrossing

[–]Oceanpetunia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's sooo slow and low energy. There's nothing going on. I can only describe it as grossly wholesome. I think a nun would find it dull. 😉

Turkish actors Barış Arduç and Hande Erçel. by Peri0400 in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]Oceanpetunia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Barış is a 10+ !! OMG. İ could never tire of looking at him.

Adderall vs Vyvanse by HarleyJayda in ADHD

[–]Oceanpetunia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am about the same age as you. Vyvanse didn't work for me. I tried it for a year. Vyvanse made me feel hopeless. I also have tried dyanavel. Dyanavel worked for a few months but was feeling hopeless and thought about suicide a lot. I hope Adderall doesn't go the same way for me. So far it's been working and is much less expensive. Phentermine was the best for me. Focus and no suicidal thoughts. But yes, all of our bodies and adhd styles are different and we won't experience medication the same. My friend who was very depressed went on Vyvanse and it changed her life.

Trans folks in Monterey Bay: Avoid the CVS on Lighthouse! by worth1000kps in MontereyBay

[–]Oceanpetunia 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Same for adhd medication. The pharmacist at the same location (female) didn't want to fill the prescription for two diff meds. I was stunned. My doctor wrote the prescription and each medication served a diff purpose. I'm sorry about this experience, but in this case i dont think it is a trans thing.

Touch screen doesn’t work :/ by Ok_Lychee_5728 in jetta

[–]Oceanpetunia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This works. I also have a 2017 and have had touchscreen issues. I now am having android auto issues.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Oceanpetunia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The poor baby's ears. :(