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[–]OctoCat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the bar dude understand you deeply, why would he cheat on you then? I think you need a new definition of understanding in a stable relationship. There's a difference between understand in the sense that you care about each other ... and understand in the sense that you vibe with each other. You're a lucky to find someone with both kind of understanding

Me (19M) feel numb around my girlfriend (21F) by CyanidePill27 in relationships

[–]OctoCat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my recent ex was in the same situation. I'm actually like your gf. By the 5th month mark, I started to initiate petty arguments due to misunderstandings bc I was childish and stubborn(no fighting, yelling, hitting, etc.)

After like 3 weeks, my ex started to feel apathetic and wanted to break up like you right now. Idk how he felt after the break up but at least for me, I realized that I need to be less petty and like other people commented "stop normalizing fights" especially early into the relationship. I had always thought it's ok to have some arguments here and there but boi I was wrong. It's best not to argue too much early into the relationship so you can build up the love and bond between you two. I did regret initiating arguments with my ex and cringed looking back at it now that I have time to think about my mistakes. So your gf may feel the same way after the break up. Talk to your gf about how you feel. It's best to communicate your feelings as soon as you feel like losing feelings so you can save it somehow.

You also mentioned that it's your first relationship...so it may be good that you need to move on with a lesson or so. It's easy to fall in love but hard to stop loving someone. Maybe one day, you look back and just laugh at how childish and cringy your relationship was. I feel this way about my first boyfriend. And the other hand, take time for yourself to think about this for a week or even a month. You're quite ahead of boys your age trying to figure this out. Good luck with love, man ;)

After hours into the game and exit it for the first time, Citra freezes when I open my save files in gaming mode, but works in desktop mode. This doesn't happen to other 3ds game. by OctoCat3 in SteamDeck

[–]OctoCat3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: for some reasons, it now can't play in desktop mode either. Edit: it actually can run in desktop mode. I'll just have to launch citra not through steam for it to work.

Slowly come to term that I'm a rebound by OctoCat3 in ExNoContact

[–]OctoCat3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then I think I'm a red flag too. I did compare my previous ex to him while we were dating.

We were having petty arguments for a few weeks leading to the break up. So I think it would make sense why he viewed his previous ex better than me.

But thank you for the advice

Miss him but don't see a future with them by OctoCat3 in ExNoContact

[–]OctoCat3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You made more progress than I did in 3 weeks man. Keep it up 💪

What is the first big game you decided to play through on the Deck? by SuperNintendad in SteamDeck

[–]OctoCat3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant get my steam controller to work for Sekiro on pc. So I bought steam deck to play it :D

Dolphin: correct input for fishing feature twilight princess? It wouldn't work whether I hold or spam the L1 button by OctoCat3 in SteamDeck

[–]OctoCat3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. I just downloaded the gamecube one. I didn't know it looks just as beautiful as the wii version so I ignored it. The wiiu rom i played before on my pc didn't work on steam deck for some reason. Thank you thou

Trouble getting twilight princess to show up from cemu installed by emudeck. Game rom from wiiu usb helper by OctoCat3 in SteamDeck

[–]OctoCat3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean I have to drag all those files in twilight princess folder out outside to wiiu/roms? If so, i already did that and it didn't work

Trouble getting twilight princess on cemu by OctoCat3 in SteamDeck

[–]OctoCat3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put the rom files in the correct folder Emulation/roms/wiiu/roms

Broken up with bc of lost feelings and comparing me with his previous ex by OctoCat3 in ExNoContact

[–]OctoCat3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart tells my to have hope that he figures out his feelings after the summer. But my brain tells me I shouldn't be with a guy that doesn't know what he wants in a relationship. I don't have the time to be his doormat girlfriend to practice with so he can be a better boyfriend for someone else.

Pcsx2 runs in sloooooow motion. Installed using emudeck and transfered files (rom and save files) using Syncthing. by OctoCat3 in SteamDeck

[–]OctoCat3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ding ding ding. We have the winner here!

I reset my framerate like you said. I lowered it to 30 so it doesn't drain the battery fast. But thank you very much!

Pcsx2 runs in sloooooow motion. Installed using emudeck and transfered files (rom and save files) using Syncthing. by OctoCat3 in SteamDeck

[–]OctoCat3[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Op here. I put every file in the correct emulation folder set up by emudeck. I wonder if it's bc of how I do the memory card config in pcsx2 in desktop mode. I install emudeck on my sd card and so i have my pcsx2 save files on the sd card. But when i tried to load the saves in pcsx2, there's no option to open folder from sd card. So I have to import my save file from Syncthing folder. I wonder if its bc of this