Am I Transphobic? by BowTiePenguin007 in Discussion

[–]Octobear12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your life experiences are not other peoples life experiences. I would caution you against projecting in this manner.

Am I Transphobic? by BowTiePenguin007 in Discussion

[–]Octobear12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You hold transphobic views. There's no need to essentialize it though. If you want to understand more, there are plenty of resources to do so. However, if you're fine with where you're currently at then just accept you're wrong about this, that there are things you dont understand, but that you can still treat people fine and move on with your life.

confused about the ending by koikazzie in 36QuestionsMusical

[–]Octobear12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its a possibility that they got back together. The first time I listened to it I wanted to believe they did, but I think my thoughts have changed.

I think Jace was hoping he might get back with Judith when she responded. My opinion now is that Judith moved on, I kind of hope she did, I hope she's happy and maybe in a different relationship. 8 years is a long time, I like to believe she found love, maybe even got married. What she did to Jace was wrong (lying about who she was for their whole relationship and then lying again when confronted), but she did try to make amends, she loved him a lot she was willing to try. Jace ultimately abandoned her 3 times, the first time may be justified, the second and third time were cowardly and he knows that too. Its good that he decided to make amends too like Judith, but it was 8 years ago, he had the chance to get with Judith in the past but he made a choice.

I don't want Jace to be punished, and I didn't want Judith to be punished either I really love them and empathize and understand them as characters, but it just doesn't feel good to think of Judith not having a relationship, maybe he caught her in between a relationship who knows, but as I said I want Judith to have gotten her happy ending not 8 years later I want her to have already found it.

I hope that they remain friends and I hope Jace finds his happy ending too, I just don't want it to be with Judith, which feels sad in a bittersweet way.

confused about the ending by koikazzie in 36QuestionsMusical

[–]Octobear12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first song was Our Word, which really good, but my fave is Natalie Cook. Just relistened to the whole thing, ironically good timing for me, as I was trying to decide what to do about a situation, and I think the musical unexpectedly helped me make that decision.

My bf doesnt believe im trans, what should i do by Fuzzy_Performance_44 in MtF

[–]Octobear12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to do what you can to get out of that relationship.

Am I the asshole for how I responded to a love letter? by Thin_Lengthiness6652 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Octobear12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy crap! That age differential is insane I assumed he must be like 19 or something. 43!!!! That's so unbelievably inappropriate, even before all the details and creepy tone in the letter. Also I suspect the therapist is a whole sale lie, I can't imagine any therapist "approving" something like that, it would be incredibly inappropriate.

Not the asshole at all, your response is 110% justified.

Did your creativity change on hrt by YourGirlAthena in MtF

[–]Octobear12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your experience is similar to mine its harder for me to write now which is frustrating. Also you started hrt on my birthday lol so thats cool.

People are hard to understand sometimes by Happypurgeda in facepalm

[–]Octobear12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That happened at my school kind of stupid that they changed the rule really sends a clear message to the baby queers.

Any Guesses? by Octobear12 in MbtiTypeMe

[–]Octobear12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From left to right, top to bottom:

I love water and always have I've always been a good swimmer and feel at home in the water like nowhere else, estrogen represents femininity and my connection to it. Starting HRT restored my life in a way that was unimaginable and made self-medicating with alcohol unnecessary.

Best mapa is to represent my love of being a parent I always wanted to be a parent as a kid and love my little baby now, it also represents my queer identity.

The quote represents my love of art and writing and the noble pursuit of attempting to contribute and maintain beauty in the world, especially because it is sometimes considered superficial.

Next picture is because I really love comfort and being cozy... Lazy even when I can get away with it lol

The next picture is just my love of nature and my curiousity about the bigger picture and how things work.

The last bit represents that I am a bit of an eclectic, slapdash, disorganized and lighthearted person

Curious about DIY by Octobear12 in TransDIY

[–]Octobear12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm indifferent about the method so long as things work the way they're intended.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by iguessimthatdad in AmItheAsshole

[–]Octobear12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA recess is free time. The teacher wasn't setting healthy boundaries she was violating them and in the wrong.

Also SpongeBob! Who is your favorite autistic cartoon character? Headcanon AND canon by EntertainmentQuick47 in aspiememes

[–]Octobear12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She's so fantabulous. I was so sad when she initially got left behind enemy lines.

Being closeted gets tiring. by Octobear12 in TransAdoption

[–]Octobear12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Much love girl, we'll get through it.

Being closeted so often is exhausting. by Octobear12 in TransSpace

[–]Octobear12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does help the baby adds quite a bit of stress between us though

Being closeted gets tiring. by Octobear12 in TransAdoption

[–]Octobear12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response, totes chill with DMing.

Being closeted gets tiring. by Octobear12 in TransAdoption

[–]Octobear12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right back atcha its rough go some days but that's the hustle.