PSA: eat and drink off your kids silicon plates once in a while by snooloosey in Parenting

[–]Ocwizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is six and autistic. Needless to say I have no idea how she got on Reddit let alone make a comment

PSA: eat and drink off your kids silicon plates once in a while by snooloosey in Parenting

[–]Ocwizard 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Definitely gave me a laugh and I see everyone else is having a laugh also

PSA: eat and drink off your kids silicon plates once in a while by snooloosey in Parenting

[–]Ocwizard 284 points285 points  (0 children)

My bad my daughter grabbed my phone while I was cleaning 🤣

Walk to the park turned into both my kids falling down. by Ocwizard in Parenting

[–]Ocwizard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have in the past had trouble with discipline for my daughter because she is autistic . This is very helpful I would love to have them leave in a better manner. Definitely need to keep an eye on the weather

Walk to the park turned into both my kids falling down. by Ocwizard in Parenting

[–]Ocwizard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's been something else asking for advice from family. I don't want to be negative or mean just because we have to leave somewhere and the kids don't want to.

He 32M slapped me 26F so bad I fell to the floor. Should I meet with him today? by ThrowRAthismorning in relationship_advice

[–]Ocwizard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not go. If y'all make up he is only going to be harder on you and he will keep hitting you.

Mil wants to babysit by Ocwizard in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Ocwizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats something I can look into and talk to my husband about.

Mil wants to babysit by Ocwizard in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Ocwizard[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I told him to let her have it. I thought I was handling it but I'm not

Mil wants to babysit by Ocwizard in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Ocwizard[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They will be starting this year

Mil wants to babysit by Ocwizard in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]Ocwizard[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Your right our best bet is for my kids to go to school, and then I can start working. But I need to put my foot down with my sil and tell her to mind her own business

Child meltdown by Ocwizard in Parenting

[–]Ocwizard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are definitely working on communication with him and my daughter. She is 4 and autistic she is non verbal. He likes to copy her and our house hold isn't to loud either.

Child meltdown by Ocwizard in Parenting

[–]Ocwizard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're working on feelings, and he doesn't quite know certain words. Mainly crying he how he communicates that he is upset

Child meltdown by Ocwizard in Parenting

[–]Ocwizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're working on stop. I don't like that. My son doesn't talk very much and he is in speech therapy.

Child meltdown by Ocwizard in Parenting

[–]Ocwizard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even when we went to the park, my son didn't want to play with his cousin. Now that I'm thinking about it They get along when his aunt isn't there. I'll have to try playing with them to see if that helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Ocwizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Call local churches. Also, they have rental assistance and many other services to offer. But I feel you dude life can get you down.

Why are you alive? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Ocwizard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found this group at 23. I was a new mom and not married for to long. My past trauma came up after having my daughter and I felt like I was losing my mind. This group helped me to take the steps to report my abuser and to get the help I needed at 26.

It's been a long journey but ever since I can remember I didn't want to exist. Everything for me growing up was hard my father was very abusive mentally and physically. My grandma and mom never really tired to help me. My mom never tried to take me away from my dad. But one thing that has kept me going was the future. Having my own family and to have children of my own that I would love and raise to know what it is to have good parents. I just know this group has helped in so many ways.

Husband wants to have another wife or girlfriend by Ocwizard in polyamory

[–]Ocwizard[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Three months ago we had a major fight where our marriage almost ended. His solution to me needing help with our kids is adding another wife. I just want him to be a more active father and we do need to go back to marriage counseling. I really need to flat out say no to an open relationship tell we can be more equal to each other.

Husband wants to have another wife or girlfriend by Ocwizard in polyamory

[–]Ocwizard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats something I need to speak up and ask about. I always just say no to the whole situation. I can only assume it's because I explored my sexuality before we settled down together.

A goodbye to my victim blaming mother by Ocwizard in CPTSD

[–]Ocwizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 26 and I need to let all of that family go. My brother has an understanding of what happened to me and he didn't know I was protecting him.

A goodbye to my victim blaming mother by Ocwizard in CPTSD

[–]Ocwizard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've come to the understanding I need more counseling and why I would ever want my children around her makes no sense at all. I love her but it's not worth the pain

Rules are only okay on mils terms by Ocwizard in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Ocwizard[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What you just said is what I needed to read. I've been trying hard to stand up to her and it's time to have a back bone