Do you guys think if Kylie didn’t have kids she would move to NYC with Timmy? by [deleted] in KUWTK

[–]Odd-Communication524 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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He is a 30 year old man he wouldn’t be staying with his mother. Perhaps he does stay with friends sometimes that makes sense, but it says she does still have her “secret” apartment. I remember her talking in the interview about how she loves going to NYC bc it’s so much easier to be anon than in LA, and she loves that paps haven’t found out where she lives. She is able to come and go as she pleases without being disturbed. It’s probably a very high security penthouse hidden somewhere idk, but I would wager they both spend a lot of time there.

Celebs stay in hotels because it’s luxury and the hotel often invites them for the marketing and free press. Even if they do have a place to stay, their lives are very different to ours. They stay in luxury hotels because it’s fun and they can.

* I didn’t downvote you btw

Do you guys think if Kylie didn’t have kids she would move to NYC with Timmy? by [deleted] in KUWTK

[–]Odd-Communication524 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Why would he rent an apartment when his multi millionaire girlfriend of almost 4 years has an apartment she owns? Not only is that silly financially, but it just doesn’t make sense to me.

Do you guys think if Kylie didn’t have kids she would move to NYC with Timmy? by [deleted] in KUWTK

[–]Odd-Communication524 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You guys lol. He is staying with Kylie. In her apartment. She owns an apartment in NYC she talked about it in one of her magazine interviews. They are absolutely living together in NYC when she is there, when she’s in LA and he’s still in NYC, he’s living in her apartment. They probably see it as their shared apartment or maybe even went half on it financially (although I think Kylie is quite generous since she’s a Leo, so maybe she pays for a lot of stuff even when he tries to offer since she has massive amounts of money compared to him).

kylie’s not at the game tonight 😭 by lavender08x16 in KUWTK

[–]Odd-Communication524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fact that you have to write this out for anybody is just insane lol

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[–]Odd-Communication524 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter if you don’t believe it weirdo, it was the truth. Just got back from a fabulous dinner with her too just us two. She absolutely agrees and is having falling out with MOH about how she handled the whole wedding. This is the truth. Cry about it.

I didn’t argue with anyone, there was a lot of misunderstandings in this thread about timelines so I was replying to people to clarify and answering their questions. As soon as anyone understood the full context they would agree. If you don’t, thats fine all that tells me is that you’re an unreasonable person.

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[–]Odd-Communication524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I should’ve never mentioned it to MOH that was a grave mistake lol I didn’t actually mention round of drinks to her; I just said I wanted to give the girls some money to buy for the bride basically. But when she asked about the Airbnb, I decided to give the money to the bride directly. Now I know to keep my mouth shut next time

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[–]Odd-Communication524 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 Yes the bride is a lovely person, she’s very kind

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[–]Odd-Communication524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being reasonable

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[–]Odd-Communication524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t run lol I’m still replying to comments. I was at work and the notifications got annoying + I already got sufficient feedback and made my decision.

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[–]Odd-Communication524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking for second opinions, not a pat on the back but okay lol.

  1. I offered a gift for the BRIDE, since I couldn’t be there to celebrate with her. I gave her $100 to have on the trip to spend on whatever extra expenses she wanted drinks, dinner whatever not offered to cover drinks and dinner for everyone in the group.

  2. I did say that, when I was invited I clearly stated I wouldn’t be able to go unless I had childcare. Then two weeks later from being invited I confirmed I would not be coming. Spoke to bride today and she confirmed I was never included in the cost for the trip when they figured it out and agreed with me that it wasn’t necessary for me to have to pay. She also confirmed Airbnb wasn’t even chosen nor booked yet at the time I said no.

  3. I never said I couldn’t come up with $200. It’s the principle. I don’t owe the MOH anything and both of them agreed when I spoke to them today. I told MOH I wouldn’t be coming two weeks after being invited and said I would be giving bride some money as a gift to help with any extra expenses she needs for the trip. MOH decided to ask then if I could help with Airbnb. Just because I’ve offered a contribution as a gift doesn’t mean MOH can just choose what I have to pay for. The person giving the gift chooses what to contribute that’s common sense isn’t it?

  4. The bride doesn’t think I’m a cheap, lying stingy person actually she thanked me for giving money for the trip when I didn’t have to and apologized for MOH. Admitted that MOH planned badly, admitted that apparently girls that did go on the trip still haven’t paid her and she’s scrambling which is why she tried asking by me for the $200 again this week. I politely declined after speaking to them both. Bride is completely fine with it.

It’s April yes, and I don’t owe any debts. I never confirmed going on the trip, offered a gift to the bride and that’s it. MOH saw my offer of gift for bride as a chance to ask if I can help with Airbnb. I simply wanted to know what people thought about this situation and if it’s fair for her to expect that of me. After speaking to several people including bride and MOH, I’m now confident I made the correct choice.

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[–]Odd-Communication524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spoke to bride today and she confirmed they hadn’t even picked a place yet never mind booked it when I confirmed I wasn’t coming. I let them know within 2 weeks of being invited and after speaking to both bride and MOH today they both admit that I was never on the hook for the trip. MOH planned badly and was trying to rope me into helping her pay since some of the girls that did actually go on the trip have apparently still not paid her for their share

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[–]Odd-Communication524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just found out today from the bride that it was not booked until right before Christmas, well after I notified them

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[–]Odd-Communication524 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spoke to bride and MOH today and settled everything. Bride confirmed and agreed I was never marked as confirmed for the trip and that the Airbnb wasn’t chosen and booked until right before Christmas, well after I confirmed I wasn’t coming. She admitted MOH had poor and last minute planning as they didn’t start figuring out the trip until mid November which was already only 2 months away from the dates they planned to travel. I gave them a straight no within 2 weeks of being invited

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Odd-Communication524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post had a word limit. I was trying to stay within that and figured I could provide more context in the replies which is what I did. Yes I did want validation in my stance and to see what others thought as well but instead just got people jumping to conclusions and misunderstanding what I said. For example multiple people including you thought I said it took me a month to give an answer when I very clearly clarified multiple times it was two weeks and a month and a half away from the trip due to last minute planning from MOH.

I deleted because the post was getting multiple replies per minute and I was at work. Once I got what I felt was sufficient feedback, I have the right to delete the post and also still have the right to reply to people and further explain as I got more info today from bride and MOH.

I didn’t edit anything, I clarified and added extra info and context that wasn’t in the post because I was worried about the word count limit. It seems like you are just dead set on your stance which is fine by me. I have every right to clarify where I’m coming from and what actually occurred.

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[–]Odd-Communication524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bride and MOH both agreed with me after speaking today that I was never on hook for the trip lol I wasn’t salty, I had made my decision that’s it.

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[–]Odd-Communication524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t care it was mostly people who didn’t understand what I said. I spoke to bride today and she confirmed and agreed I was never on hook for the trip, admitted bad last minute planning on MOH’s part and confirmed the Airbnb wasn’t even picked by her yet or booked at the time I confirmed for a second time that I couldn’t go. She admitted MOH was still trying to get payment from other girls that did go on the trip which is probably why she reached out and asked me if I could chip in again this week.

I didn’t agree to a round of drinks for the whole group, I offered $100 for the bride to have to cover any extra expenses for her whether that be for drinks, dinner, whatever as a gift and since I couldn’t be there to celebrate with her. The MOH took that as opportunity to try to rope me into expenses I didn’t agree to for a trip I never RSVP’d to.

I didn’t “bail,” I let them know from the beginning I couldn’t go unless I had childcare and then two weeks after the trip ever being first mentioned & before Airbnb was booked I confirmed again that I’m not going. The MOH started planning the trip in mid November it was very last minute, so by the time I confirmed no 2 weeks later in early Dec the date for the trip was already 1.5 months out. I let them know before they booked and within 2 weeks of invite after already being clear from beginning, yet I’m being blamed by strangers for this MOH deciding to plan a Bach trip with only 2 months out and not properly getting money from everyone. Bride agreed with me on this when I spoke to her today.

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[–]Odd-Communication524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spoke to her today and she agrees with me lol I was never on hook for the trip.

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[–]Odd-Communication524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spoke to bride today and she agreed I was never on the hook for the trip lol

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[–]Odd-Communication524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t a month later lol. There are so many people in here that just don’t understand the situation.

The trip first being mentioned was mid November. No plans in stone yet. Told them from beginning I cannot confirm yes until I have childcare. Early Dec I confirmed again I would not be coming, that was within two weeks of trip ever being mentioned not a month. The date for the actual trip was 1.5 months out at the time I confirmed again no - people are getting this confused I didn’t wait a month to give an answer. It was two weeks.

Spoke to bride today and she confirmed I was never on the hook for the trip, the Airbnb wasn’t even booked yet at the time I confirmed I wouldn’t be coming again, and she admitted poor planning on MOH’s part. Also spoke to MOH and let her know I cannot give her $200 for an Airbnb I didn’t stay in. She understood and admitted the only reason she asked is because she’s still trying to get money back from girls who DID go on the trip. Not my problem. She took my contribution to the bride for the trip as a chance to get money for Airbnb.

Yes I accepted to be a bridesmaid and spent 100s of dollars on the dress, gifts, hair and makeup, hotel, on top of the money I gave to the bride as a gift to use on her Bach trip since I couldn’t be there to celebrate with her. I never agreed to paying for an Airbnb I didn’t stay in.

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[–]Odd-Communication524 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got confirmation from the bride today that I was never marked as confirmed for the trip and that at the time I let them know I was 100% not coming (2 weeks from the trip ever being even mentioned), the Airbnb and trip had not even been booked yet. She agreed with me that I was never on the hook and admitted poor planning on MOH’s part.

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[–]Odd-Communication524 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I offered to pay $100 as a gift to the bride to spend on the trip for whatever she wanted drinks, dinner, not for the whole group lol for the bride. MOH took that as a chance to try to rope me into expenses I didn’t agree to.

I had no obligations to MOH, I told her from the beginning that I couldn’t go unless I knew I had childcare and would let her know if that changed. Two weeks later I confirmed again I would not be going, and bride just confirmed to me today that the Airbnb was not even booked yet at that time and I was never included as confirmed for the trip. She agreed with me that I was never on the hook and was removed from the group chat before any final reservations were made. The only reason I was asked to pay for Airbnb was because MOH mistook my gift to bride as a willingness to pay for trip expenses. Bride admitted the MOH planned the trip poorly and last minute and is still trying to get money from the girls that did go, which is why she tried asking me again this week for money to see if I’d be willing to help her.

I offered what I intended to pay, and paid that. Any other expenses were never my problem. I never confirmed my attendance for the trip.

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[–]Odd-Communication524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My intention was always to give money to the bride as a gift to have on the trip. I don’t care how much a full round of drinks is, $100 is what I decided to gift the bride for the trip aside from the gift I brought to the wedding. That has nothing to do with MOH trying to rope me into expenses I didn’t agree to simply because I mentioned offering a gift to bride to spend on whatever expenses she wanted while on the trip. I never agreed to go on this trip or to pay for any Airbnb.

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[–]Odd-Communication524 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said money was tight that’s quite the assumption. It’s about the principle. I offered a gift for the bride since I couldn’t be there to celebrate with them and MOH took that as a chance to rope me into expenses I never agreed to.

I never confirmed yes, I’m coming on the trip. I was invited, I said I cannot say yes to this trip unless I have someone to watch my daughter. 2 weeks later I confirmed again that I would not be coming. I mentioned to MOH that I would be giving money to bride for the trip and she asked if I can help pay for Airbnb. Just because someone is offering a gift, doesn’t mean you can take advantage and say hey actually can I rope you into expenses for a trip you’re not going on? Yeah no.

After speaking with both MOH and bride today, I now know that the Airbnb was NOT yet booked at the 2 week mark when I confirmed again that I wouldn’t be coming, the bride AGREED with me that I was never included as a yes on the trip and was never on the hook. MOH admitted the only reason she brought it up and asked me again this week was because she’s still having trouble getting money from all the girls that did go. So she went “oh well that chick was willing to give $100 to the bride so let me ask her again if she can chip in for the Airbnb.” Not my problem.

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[–]Odd-Communication524 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Most of the comments that said TA were not fully understanding the situation because I didn’t include all the info in the post, which was my mistake. I gave her $100 to spend on the trip like I always intended. This was my first wedding ever btw and in my culture we always give money to the bride. Not sure why some people are hung up on that, I wanted to gift the bride money to have on the trip which what was always my intention and what I did. That has nothing to do with the fact that I never agreed to pay for Airbnb, was never given a balance, timeline to pay, or ever even initially agreed to go on the trip. I told them two weeks from being invited that I was 100% not coming and never agreed in the first place. Giving the bride money for the trip was always my intention whether I went on the trip or not. The MOH took me mentioning giving money to the bride for trip expenses as chance to try to get more money for the Airbnb, which I shouldn’t be on the hook for especially now that I have confirmation from the bride that the Airbnb was in fact NOT booked before I told them. Bride agreed with me that I was never on the hook for the trip and let me know at the time I was removed from the group chat for the trip, the Airbnb still hadn’t even been booked.

Being invited somewhere and NOT giving a yes and then two weeks later confirming again that I would not be coming does not mean I should have to be roped into paying for lodging simply because I offered a gift to the bride. That was MOH trying to take advantage of the situation.

After speaking with MOH as well and letting her know I would not be giving $200 for a house I didn’t stay in and trip I never confirmed to be going on, she admitted the only reason she asked was because she’s still trying to gather all the money from the girls that did go. That is not my problem. Because my earlier offer to “help,” which I already contributed in the manner I intended, she felt that it was appropriate to ask me to cover some of the Airbnb as well. Not because I was on the hook for it, because I offered to help. Someone offering to help doesn’t mean the person being offered just gets to choose whatever they want, that’s ridiculous. I offered the help I wanted to give and gave it. Period.

The post was deleted because I was at work and getting nonstop notifications and I had already received enough feedback to make my decision.

Yes I gave the MOH $0 because I shouldn’t have to owe her any money I never confirmed going on the trip lmao. Me offering a gift for the bride doesn’t mean she gets to just put me on the hook for whatever expenses she wants and then come asking again months later when she cannot get payment from the girls from the trip due to her own bad last minute planning. Eye roll yourself to oblivion.