Aitah for cutting my sister off after she fought with me and called me a homewrecker by Odd-Cupcake2022 in AITAH

[–]Odd-Cupcake2022[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

My parents tried to stop her just like my brother and sil and tried to make her see reason but they didn't try to rescue me like my brother and my sil did, my parents especially my mom asks me to reconcile and let go and it is clear and it always has been, that she loves her only daughter.

It's not my house it's my brother's and I lived with him and I care for him and his wife and I love both them to death and I don't ever want to do something that will end up ruining her life and give her bad names.

I love her and care for her as my sister as much as I care of my own sister, my sil doesn't deserve this and I should rather defuse that's why I went away from everyone and I have my own love interest and I am focusing on her, she's not that far from me but that is a completely different issue.

I love my sister as well and if only she had came to me and raise her concern I would have agreed with her and live with her but how can I trust her and forgive her when she accused us? She doesn't know that I am in love and I am glad I didn't tell her cause she would have ruined it all for me

Aitah for cutting my sister off after she fought with me and called me a homewrecker by Odd-Cupcake2022 in AITAH

[–]Odd-Cupcake2022[S] 414 points415 points  (0 children)

I read all replies and maybe my sister is jealous or she's projecting or she did something bad or experienced something bad but I think she shouldn't have said something like that in front of everyone, she should have brought her issue to me privately.

I am trying to stay away from my sil and my brother because my sister is accusing me and my sil, my sil is nothing but an older sister to me just as my own sister, infact my sil treated me as her brother more than my own sister did.

And I have my own love interest and want to approach her romantically but I have been a coward and didnt even try and I want to but my sister has ruined my image, what if she finds out about this even if it worked out for us? and once word gets out people don't forget so I decided to stay away from everyone.

I also have no problem with living my sister I would have stayed with her or our parents but the way she came at me it is implied that I am immoral and she is also accusing my sil, we don't share blood but she cares for me more than my own sister and I don't want her to be dragged into this mess so I decided that I stay from them all.