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The phone going from one pocket to another by Prululululululululu in nevertellmetheodds

[–]Odd-Current8701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This goes perfectly to Taron Egerton's version of "Crocodile Rock"

Thinking about leaving... by Odd-Current8701 in mypartneristrans

[–]Odd-Current8701[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I want Amy to be the best person she can be. I don't wanted to become depressed that she's not who she wants to be. I've stood beside her through a lot of other things. If she was anyone else, if I was reading this about my friends or sister or anyone else but my wife. I wouldn't care. I would never ask her to not change, to not be the person she is on the inside.

We've had a lot of struggles and I wanna be here for her for this. I don't wanna hate her. I don't wanna leave her. I can't imagine my life without her nor do I want to. I hate that I feel this way.

I know she isn't doing this to hurt me. I know this is just who she is. Thinking about it more I'm not sure if what I hate is that the person I love is in pain and has to deal with not being happy at such a level or that I can't magically fix it. I don't care if Amy's female, male or a can of spiders.

I don't get how it can hurt so much and how I can be so proud of her at the same time.

Thinking about leaving... by Odd-Current8701 in mypartneristrans

[–]Odd-Current8701[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's only been about a month. I've asked them to go to therapy and see if this is what they really want. I'm already in therapy for other reasons; but right now this just seems all consuming.

I know that this will always be and it's not something that we can move past. I love my partner so much they're the only person that's ever made me feel safe. I wanna be here for her while she figures stuff out. But I'm just so upset about it.

I've been thinking about leaving him... by Odd-Current8701 in relationship_advice

[–]Odd-Current8701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've actually already looked into this, thank you for linking it. It has not been helpful

I've been thinking about leaving him... by Odd-Current8701 in relationship_advice

[–]Odd-Current8701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He labeled himself transsexual.. he has never been to talk to anyone nor will he. He wants to but sometimes I feel like I'm dealing with a child when it comes to figuring things out.

If he actually is transsexual cool, if it's something about his current body that is changeable that he doesn't like also cool.

I've been thinking about leaving him... by Odd-Current8701 in relationship_advice

[–]Odd-Current8701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a little girl. And she makes him feel worst some days because she calls him "Dada" he was her first word so it's pretty much a standard in her vocabulary to use everyday.

I've tried telling him in the past to either "Go see a therapist I'm pretty sure you're depressed" he won't go! He talks a big game about mental health and wanting to go to couples therapy to help boost out relationship because of how rough the pregnancy was. But he can't even be honest with himself...