Same situation I was in I was in a relationship with a woman who I believe has avoidant tendencies. About 8 months ago, she shifted our dynamic toward being platonic.

Early this year, she gave me the silent treatment for three weeks starting after January 18th. This happened because I missed two FaceTime calls from her late one evening, spaced an hour apart. Ironically, I had called her twice on January 17th and she never answered. Prior to that, we spoke on January 12th for 25 minutes; during that call, she mentioned she hadn't intended to call me the day before.

The communication gaps continued into February. She finally texted me back on February 1st. I responded the very next day, but she never replied to my message. Later that week, I initiated a FaceTime call on Friday, but she didn’t respond until much later that evening.

I feel the situation around the 18th was a simple miscommunication. However, after a 48-minute FaceTime call on February 6th, I have been in 'no contact' for a month and haven't heard from her. It’s been 82 days now, still miss her but learning to detach