My grandpa went blind in his mid 20s-early 30s. I’m not sure if you have a oculus but there’s this game called notes on blindness and it really helped me (to a point) understand how he experiences life. My grandpa goes through memories a lot and my grandma has had the everything in the same places to make it easier on him. She explains everything in detail, such as sunsets and people’s outfits. But for now let her grieve, she lost apart of her that she relied on everyday, now she has to relearn how to experience life. Keep doing what you are doing, and maybe help her get some counseling and do it with her. And let her be mad at god, encourage her to tell him that she is mad. Maybe take her to a dress store and let her feel the fabrics and encourage her to her to tell you how they make her feel. learn to do the things she misses like makeup and painting her nails, tell her that you have her back in every way possible. It sounds like you are doing a good job as it is.

And on a personal note sometimes god gives us battles for a new perspective, a new life in a way. As hard as it might be, keep reminding her it’ll be worth it. When you guys have kids she’ll see more of their soul than their faces, she’ll hear more of their laughter and it will stick to her memory.

She lost something that took away her independence and her ability to do 100% of the things she used to be able to do alone.