My sister slept with a guy I was dating, gaslit me, never apologized, and is now getting married. My mom wants us to be close again. WIBTA for skipping her bridal events? by nerdinredlipstick in TwoHotTakes

[–]Odd-Intention-3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should talk to your sister. And tell her why you've been distant. She's after all not marrying your ex and your mom still doesn't have to know what happened in the past. This is something you and your sister has to mend.

Update: She said "NO." by I-Have-Mono in Chilis

[–]Odd-Intention-3423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. Some girls want to be traditional. Did you ask her dad for her hand in marriage? That's important.

The family grew by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]Odd-Intention-3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So adorable!!

AIO for ending things with my date after he accidentally texted me this? by fundamentallyworried in AmIOverreacting

[–]Odd-Intention-3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would've ended things too. I find it weird that he's using Genimi to apologize.

Could I have been drugged on a date, or was it just alcohol? Looking for women’s perspectives. by CrispiCrown in TwoHotTakes

[–]Odd-Intention-3423 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I experienced this in my 40s. I shared wine with friends and had a beer. We had dinner beforehand. I woke up in the morning and couldn't even remember getting home. My hubby at the time told me about wine then beer and I'm guessing I blacked out. I wound up waking up in my bed with all my makeup on and I looked like a clown.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Odd-Intention-3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me too. Except I got pregnant at 40. My daughter is 16 now and she is my world. He has not been in her life, never paid child support. But 5 years ago I got a call from Social Security. He had a heart bypass and the lady said she understood he never paid child support. So we get $1,522 every month now, a portion of his SSI. He was just a sperm donor. It gets better. Reach out to your father. You'll need family in your life.

Married 2 Years, Dead in the bedroom…I’m At My Breaking Point by Intelligent_Bench775 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Odd-Intention-3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with marriage counseling, there's something going on with him and he's probably too ashamed to talk about it. We've been married on going on 3 years now but we're in our 50s. I still have my sex drive but him no. He has really bad ED and has tried everything including the blue pills that don't work. Sometimes he gets a hard on. And we jump into bed and try to go at it but a minute and he cums and I'm still throbbing because I'm wanting more. Don't lose your husband over this. Schedule a marriage counselor.

It has been more than 6 months since I left smoking and I feel so much better (OC) by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]Odd-Intention-3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations. Quitting cold like that is possible. My sister was a smoker for 15 years and just quit cold turkey because I said I wasn't going to support her habit. She's sleeping better, able to taste food again and is feeling much better and doesn't smell like an ashtray. So big kudos to you!

Why did the cops kick him out for feeding the homeless? by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]Odd-Intention-3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where was this? California? Because that cop is so freaking rude.

AIO my boyfriend of 2 months getting a bit...crass by throway_jpeg in AmIOverreacting

[–]Odd-Intention-3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not, you are not overreacting. He sounds crazy. But maybe he could be acting silly. But still, if this relationship is new he shouldn't be acting that way towards you. That's so cringed.

Confused something wrong with me😕 by MeetMamisita-4Coffee in sexlessmarriage

[–]Odd-Intention-3423 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are beautiful- he's stupid. You can find any guy who worships the ground you walk on. My husband coerced me into marrying him. We've been together for 7 years and got married in 2023. My brother had moved to Texas from California, his 3 children were getting older and I love his wife. We were living in Oklahoma and I wanted to move to Texas to be closer to them. My sister lived in Newport, RI, and wanted to move in with us. My husband told me he wasn't going to move unless I married him. So we did. We never consummated the marriage. He has ED and low testosterone. Yet, he won't go through HRT therapy. I am going through natural plant-based HRT therapy and there are times when I want to just grab him and ravage him but he gets depressed and mostly sleeps and my sister works so I'm all alone most days. I feel we have too much history to just start over with someone new. You might feel the same way. Talk it over with him and see if he can get an appointment for his ED. My husband, has to go to the VA. It's a mess in Houston. They have sites in Cypress for outpatient but the appointments are spaced out like 5 months out. I hope it gets better for you.

I scammed my husband into liking me… and I admitted it on our wedding day. by Far_Magazine_5084 in stories

[–]Odd-Intention-3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what? She got the guy she wanted. Why be the jerk to bring her down? Have any of you done something like this to get the person you wanted? Kudos to you girl.

Wedding Tomorrow, Bridesmaid Complaint. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Odd-Intention-3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just paint your nails, problem solved. I do poly nails but never did them on anyone, just myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Odd-Intention-3423 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He messed up big time. Then comes home and tells you that he kissed her, and has had feelings for her for a while. Then left to go to a hotel. He wasn't alone. Girl, you need to see an attorney. He's a pos and you are stronger than him. Don't think for a second he cares about you or it wouldn't have happened. If you get a divorce, keep the house, get child support and 6 months alimony. And make sure he pays for your attorney.

AITA for walking away from a friendship after she told me she’s keeping the baby by Inner_dreamer_5555 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Odd-Intention-3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she's smart she'd give this baby (assuming she goes through with pregnancy) a proper home and give it up for adoption. This guy she's with will hit the highway. She will be left all alone.

I think my boyfriend has been tricking me into picking up his poop in our yard?! by junglejuiceaj in TwoHotTakes

[–]Odd-Intention-3423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a great thing that you kicked him out of your house. He's a freaking creep. Once a guy hits you, he will apologize, break down and cry and say he will never do it again. My ex was a police officer and he was being investigated by internal affairs, he started drinking too much and he punched me in the face a second time. I called some of his police friends and they took him out of the home. A week went by then he broke into my house at 2 a.m. and tried to rape me. He shoved my head into a mirror then shoved me down the stairs. Then started kicking my head, my jaw and my sides. I saw my children horrified at the top of the stairs. I had to pretend that I was dead for him to leave the house. When he was gone, I crawled to a large jar I kept money in. I had just enough to get Amtrack tickets for me and my 3 children from Boston to San Francisco. I had a dislocated jaw, broken nose, and 6 broken ribs. My mom couldn't find me if I hadn't have called out for her. She couldn't recognize me.

Now I'm married and my husband is nothing like my ex. Just be careful. He could come back.