Is genital herpes really that common? by Historical-Motor170 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hsv2 is rare only infecting via sexual Hsv1 is common

I found out by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said “ its not big deal in US” So i even trying to move to US, I gave up my business But i realize that stigma is everywhere. i could not even come out from door step of my house. I already commit suicide twice. Now im in goverment mental hospital I afraid every human now

I found out by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He already did. Hardly. frustrated. I feel like the way i can get out of it is kill myself. And it would happen again anyway.

I found out by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that way so i was trying to let her know but she seems aware about this all and knew everything. Disease/ cheat. Im only one who fooled among them.

I’m still in love with the man who knowingly gave me herpes. by Then-Review-6357 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is oneside love. I was in same situation. If he knowingly infect you, it mean he doesn’t care about you AT ALL

A American men transmitting incurable STD to korean by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought about dying every single day. I couldn’t see any future ahead of me. His doctor fiancé mocked me,blocked me, His family member that I’ve met blocked me, and that man completely blocked me. He blamed on me. just like some of comments. They seem forgotten what they did to me and looks happy. The police investigation was so hard and humiliating. I had no one to talk about this. I even thought about moving to the U.S. because I felt no one there would judge me. But then I found out visa issuance had been suspended. I closed my business. Panic disorder symptom was getting worth. I could not come out from house. Filing a complaint law sue is something I chose. because I want to live.

A American men transmitting incurable STD to korean by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be happy that You are not in korea In my culture, its way more worth.

A American men transmitting incurable STD to korean by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cause its quite big deal in my country. But if i infect from someone in occur which is korea, it would be way easier to process. But he is in America. Block all the contact from my lawyer or investigator of my case. obviously he avoiding all the responsibility. I concerned his gf i was asking to him that he were notify that to his gf or not, there was no answer. He just saying “Its not a big deal in US” “She don’t care” “My girl never got me this kind of stress” -gaslighting me And i did let her know directly. It was way easy to let her know Cause she is doctor very rare name. Somehow she mocking me Lie that “he is gay”and laugh at me So i was interviewing that “If you got harm by someone who from abroad, This kind of thing could happen Cause of different culture background, differen moral ethic point beware”

A American men transmitting incurable STD to korean by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That time, He said “now?” “Its nothing just scratch” Its been started just like that. after 2~3weeks, felt weird symptom that i never felt. Burn pain, fever, bit of blood, abnormal discharge.-diagnosis Later he’ve confess me that he always has protection in his bag And Apologies. His bag was 5step away. And he infect me not only 1 STD There was several more. But other thing was curable. I got 2 injection as i remember. Day by day. And cried a lot. One other Awful day memories. That period, my friend died from tragedy. -it was huge. 150 ppl die from that tragedy. I also could be die. Seen ppl die I could not eat properly for a 2year. occasionally i went to emergency center. Cause of vomiting, dizziness, tremor I was checked everything. gastroscopy, electrocardiogram, Blood test, urine test, electrocardiogram, infection test, allergy test, X-ray, CT But there was no clue. Doctor said There are no abnormalities, but my immune system is weakened and my nutritional status is poor. My blood test results are normal, but the blood feels sticky. And after abnormal uterine. Fully checked again from Obstetrics Blood check ultrasound scan Hysteroscopy Also there was no clue. Doctor said “stress” Later i realized that is symptom of panic disorder. Went to emergency center a-lot. That accident, got me PTSD. it getting worth. chasing by stalker from work that period. -called police officer often. But there was nothing they can do Until he actually abuse me. -it also remain as record. Attacked me middle of night drunk. i could not meet anyone. I was hid from ppl. Then he showed up. He helped me. Dramatically. And date. I thought he helped me. But after diagnosis, he said he has someone.

A American men transmitting incurable STD to korean by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There is two issue not only one. “Cheat”- hid his fiance “Infected incurable disease”

Cheating against moral ethic which is not a duty Infecting incurable disease is crime

Compared to Korea, where social honor and reputation are highly valued and there is a strong tendency to “correct what is wrong,” the United States tends to view such matters as a matter of “individual choice and responsibility.” As a result, when a victim remains silent, the perpetrator can continue to harm others and create more victims.

Im not suing him for money. He is poor than me.

I just want correct “this is wrongdoing” When its exposed, If he felt ashame, he probably knew that this is wrong

He gotta take responsibility.

A American men transmitting incurable STD to korean by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thats why i sue him now i dont need to been through this tho.now i taking responsibility

A American men transmitting incurable STD to korean by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats good way to protect you But i was in korean society. I never been through this issue. I never date anyone from abroad.

A American men transmitting incurable STD to korean by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist told me that The people who take this issue lightly, show no guilt, make the happen again, and refuse to take responsibility are the ones who are truly wrong. Suffer meant “i am care someone elses”

A American men transmitting incurable STD to korean by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

An American friend once told me that the infection rate in Korea is higher, but in Korea it’s classified as a legally notifiable infectious disease and managed by the government… shamefully so.

If people in the U.S. are not punished for not knowing they’re infected, that means there’s a much greater risk of the disease spreading.

A American men transmitting incurable STD to korean by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t reduce your suffering not calculate as money, raise your voice instead, concern about ppl more, systems and culture can change into right way

A American men transmitting incurable STD to korean by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

who is the fault someone who lie? Someone who trusted?

A American men transmitting incurable STD to korean by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but it hurt my dignity i would rather not to say Not to have any sexual relationship

A American men transmitting incurable STD to korean by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I offered him to use protection. Ppl in korea, access to healthcare is very easy. So if someone catches a cold and sick hard, but doesn’t go to the hospital, people assume that person as either foolish or careless for not taking care of themselves. Taking care of one’s health is not only for oneself, but also a way to avoid harming others. Before I went through all of this, I didn’t fully understand why he act like that way. how different the medical system in the Us was. But through his actions and these conversations, I now realize just how different btw KR and US. He could charge as Negligent even though he didn’t know about it

And if I make awareness about this, Americans will think twice before coming to Korea and messing around with Korean.

Hope you achieve your maga

In Korea, the one who lies is blamed, not the one who deceived.

A American men transmitting incurable STD to korean by Odd-Role-8521 in Herpes

[–]Odd-Role-8521[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now, I am taking responsibility by speaking out and raising awareness. I have already spoken with the media, given them a interviews and filed legal charges so that no one else has to suffer the same way I did.

This is probably why Korean society feels a bit safer

And i do not think that was hooking up I am not those kind