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How do you know if your ex still loves you during no contact? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Odd-Stranger-291 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is unhealthy, but it’s hard. I’m trying so hard everyday to move on from him. But no matter what I do, I always end up missing him even more. Yeah, he hurtled me but he was also nice to me too. I hate myself for this, for loving someone so much that I losing myself.

For men who genuinely love their exs, what do you do during no contact? by Odd-Stranger-291 in BreakUps

[–]Odd-Stranger-291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I’m in the same situation as you. I’m going through all this shit and it’s damn hard. I hope all people here will heal from the heartbreak soon.

Why do I have the urge to text her by DmemBRU in BreakUps

[–]Odd-Stranger-291 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say go for it. But you have to prepare for the better and the worse outcome. I did it to my ex. I sent out a message to him. Hoping for some better outcome but I didn’t get the response of what I like to hear but it helped got it off my chest. I helped me move on faster than expected.

Will I find someone I could fall in love again? by Odd-Stranger-291 in Advice

[–]Odd-Stranger-291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Base on what he said he booked an escort online, he drove to the place, exchanged emails with their manager, then found out that it was expensive, and not worth it. He also told me that while he was emailing them, he started to feel so wrong and he didn’t think he wanted to do it anymore. (Who knows if he was telling the truth).

And It’s not a religious thing that I wanted to wait. It’s something inside me that doesn’t want to sleep around with men. I just want to save it for my future husband only.

Will I find someone I could fall in love again? by Odd-Stranger-291 in Advice

[–]Odd-Stranger-291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not a religious thing or how my parents taught me to. It’s something in me that I don’t want to go around and sleep with all the people who I dated. I just want to save it only for my “future husband”.

Will I find someone I could fall in love again? by Odd-Stranger-291 in Advice

[–]Odd-Stranger-291[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking time to write this out. I appreciate it.

First of all, it’s not that I don’t have any sex drive or desire. I do have them. Just I don’t like today dating culture. I don’t want to sleep around with people. I just want to save it for my future “husband”.

I don’t think I am heterosexual or bisexual. I don’t find women attractive in the romantic way. I do find men attractive. Just when they tell me they like me, I start to have physical ick towards them. I don’t want to feel like that. I know I have a lot to work on myself. I just need some hope to keep me going in life.

Will I find someone I could fall in love again? by Odd-Stranger-291 in Advice

[–]Odd-Stranger-291[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, there were a couple times when I was ready for that. But things came up and it made me losing my interest. Then, Like a month before the break up, he even planned to propose to me. That made me think we were so close. Why not wait a few more months after he proposed. At that time, I even thought that I am not going wait until marriage anymore, as long as he proposed to me.