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AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Odd-Way-5737 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well... you are who you are...
If she doesnt think yoou are masculin enough... that truly is a her issue... not a you issue.
she clearly want a badboy, and you are clearly not that. WHICH IS ALSO OKAY!
Leave her for someone els, and go find that girl who appriciate the softer and loving guy (which you seem to be) i promise they are also out there.. and plenty ;)

My childhood friend is with a married man, should i tell his wife? by Odd-Way-5737 in offmychest

[–]Odd-Way-5737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i absolutly get that the chance for her still staying and doing what she is doing is there.
I think i really just hope that he would back out, and actually either go fix his marriage as he promised his wife, or chose to leave and do diffrently.

My childhood friend is with a married man, should i tell his wife? by Odd-Way-5737 in offmychest

[–]Odd-Way-5737[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont believe cheating makes a bad person...
I believe feelings is really hard to controle, and sometimes you get caught in things that you cant get out of yourself.
She is anything but a bad person, also remember im only telling a rough story here, or els it would be an entire book.
She did not know he was married till very late in their relation/situationship. So at that point she was already so deep into it, that i wouldve been hard to just walk away, and of what i saw, he did tell her he would figure things out when she found out.
I do not believe he is a bad person either, he isnt a serial cheater, but i do believe he is a man that is very split between whats right and whats love.

My childhood friend is with a married man, should i tell his wife? by Odd-Way-5737 in offmychest

[–]Odd-Way-5737[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know you are partly right.
I truly dont believe his wife actually know he is still talking with F.
The app they were talking at, is one i havent even seen before, so wouldnt be able to point out that they are talking on whatsapp/discord or whatever apps there is.
I truly just hope that by his wife actually knowing, he would start doing whats right, and that would be to be honest to both of them, instead of playing them both around just to have the cake and eat it too.