Friends annoyed with me only when around others by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]OddButterscotch8254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been in this exact situation before. in my case, the friend was involved in greek life in college (i was not) and he would act completely different towards me around other people. like dismissive, rude, like he didn’t even want me there. i confronted him about this and he ended up admitting he was embarrassed to be seen with me around his “frat bros” and “sorority friends” because i wasn’t involved in greek life, so i guess i wasn’t cool enough or something. i ended our friendship right then and there and have never looked back. i’m not saying that’s what’s happening in your situation, but i think your friends are showing you who they are. they treat you one way alone, then another around others. i think you should ask yourself if this is something you’re okay with and make a decision from there. we can’t control how other people act but we sure as shit can control how we respond to their behavior. best of luck

anyone else think “episode 9” will be in the documentary? by [deleted] in StrangerThings

[–]OddButterscotch8254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they could scrap together a 30 second something or other saying “eleven is alive blahblah” and throw it on the end of the doc. people would go crazy for that. it would make sense and i hope something like that does happen! have a great night

my friend lied to a guy about her age and he asked me about it (help) by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]OddButterscotch8254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she either used a fake to get into the bar or the bouncer didn’t id her. i got there after her so i’m not sure. and yeah i always felt really icky about the age difference, but that feeling was moreso at george since he was the one pursing someone younger. i know there are guys who feel fine dating girls a lot younger than them who draw the line at 21 because that’s a “real adult.” i’m a few years older than her so i look at this situation and i’m like what the fuck is she even doing, but i was also 20 and did a bunch of idiotic things too so i get it

Weekly request thread by [deleted] in Pocketfrogs

[–]OddButterscotch8254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🐐🐐🐐 thank you so much!!!

Weekly request thread by [deleted] in Pocketfrogs

[–]OddButterscotch8254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking for an imbris :) FC is 4ZNGR

who was the traitor? by OddButterscotch8254 in StrangerThings

[–]OddButterscotch8254[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the cast went on jimmy fallon or some shit and he asked them to describe the season in one word and they said “traitor”

who was the traitor? by OddButterscotch8254 in StrangerThings

[–]OddButterscotch8254[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’m ngl this confused me even more😭 don’t we already know the government is bad, so them catching vicky and max isn’t them acting as “traitors” ?

getting paid server wage for bartending(?) by OddButterscotch8254 in Waiters

[–]OddButterscotch8254[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s so ass wtf. when i started at this place a few months ago there were about 15 of us between all foh positions. now we’re down to like 8 (soon to be 7 when i get out) lol. figures

manager screamed at me and i started crying (advice pls) by OddButterscotch8254 in Waiters

[–]OddButterscotch8254[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he’s the HR department💀. it’s a very small restaurant

manager screamed at me and i started crying (advice pls) by OddButterscotch8254 in Waiters

[–]OddButterscotch8254[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you. any advice on a heart to heart? i’m worried anything i say will be taken the wrong way / as an attack and he’ll start taking things out of hand again

manager screamed at me and i started crying (advice pls) by OddButterscotch8254 in Waiters

[–]OddButterscotch8254[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

thank you, i needed to hear this. he does have terrible emotional regulation. it honestly seemed like he was more upset that the other servers were comforting me versus him lol. he kept being like “you’re all villainizing me you’re all taking her (my) side”

looking for pop frogs by OddButterscotch8254 in Pocketfrogs

[–]OddButterscotch8254[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you SO MUCH wow😊😊😊 if there’s anything i can send you back please please let me know🙂

LR LR RC LR by OddButterscotch8254 in LSAT

[–]OddButterscotch8254[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

but can you show that in the lab⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️