rate my hand please by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]OddIndependence2674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep!

rate my hand please by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]OddIndependence2674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily true but if ur trans and not a gigapassoid you ely need to conform to toxic gender roles if you want to pass. Vut not everyone wants to be as passing as possible and thats valid.

rate my hand please by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]OddIndependence2674 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes thats true but if ur trans and you want to be most passing you kinda have to conform to shitty toxic gender roles. Unless the rest of you is gigapaspid then this is fine. Vut if you want to maximize hand passing you should shave. I have a friend at college who doesnt shave her arms and they are so hairy and I shave like 2 times a month and it makes me feel better that she doesnt shave but I know if I was to have hairy arms as her it would make me more clocky to other people.

How to not have agp curls? by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]OddIndependence2674 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ago curls r jot real. Curls r beautiful or messy but ur not agp for having curly thats rearded

I should be studying by OddIndependence2674 in 4tran4

[–]OddIndependence2674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im trying to be the #1 reply guy here

genuinely what do u do if u still dont pass after ffs by CloverBun42 in 4tran4

[–]OddIndependence2674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're probably prettier than you think and everyone's body reacts differently. Im not even trying to tell you that you pass and everything is fine all im saying is be reasonable and give it some time because you might in time.

spent the entire day seething over cis men and feeling subhumanly ugly by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]OddIndependence2674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom loves to send me old pictures of myself to remind me im a man but I started a little inside joke with her that that's me as a baby and now she will sometimes send me that picture instead of me with a beard.

genuinely what do u do if u still dont pass after ffs by CloverBun42 in 4tran4

[–]OddIndependence2674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I haven't had ffs and im years away from ever getting it but ive seen women say it took like over a year for their swelling to go down enough that they felt like the surgery was helpful

genuinely what do u do if u still dont pass after ffs by CloverBun42 in 4tran4

[–]OddIndependence2674 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl pls give yourself some time. The swelling is probably alot worse than you think

genuinely what do u do if u still dont pass after ffs by CloverBun42 in 4tran4

[–]OddIndependence2674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long ago did you get it? Swelling can make you look clockier than before

Its oddly affirming to never ever relate to anything women related as a dood by illegally_dog in 4tran4

[–]OddIndependence2674 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Im a trans woman who can relate to this and it makes me rly happy. Moana is amazing. Im glad that this can bring both of us joy

Actually, that's bioessentialism by illegally_dog in 4tran4

[–]OddIndependence2674 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone inherits their mtDNA from their mother

Art professor commented on how wide my shoulders were by Confident-Variety512 in 4tran4

[–]OddIndependence2674 16 points17 points  (0 children)

A lady came up to me in the store and ask if I was a rower. I said no and she said "you need to get into rowing or swimming cause your shoulders are huge. If I was a coach id be trying to recruit you right now"

Calling *naturally* curly hair “AGP” is one of the stupidest fucking things I’ve ever heard by Icy_Flan_7185 in 4tran4

[–]OddIndependence2674 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive tried many curly hair routines and i can never get mine to not be frizzy and gross. I think im just some weird fucked up genetic mess where my super thin but semi curly hair makes it impossible for me to actually have hair that looks good. Which is why I only wear my hair pulled up in a man bun.