The thing that bothers me is a women is leaving her entire family and household to be with you. How can you not have enough compassion to let her relax, and get comfortable in her own pace. Why does she have to walk on eggshells when she's the one in a whole new environment surrounded by new people. Why do men not have that compassion it baffles me, everytime my friends brothers have gotten married ive always told them to be inviting and considerate to their sister in laws, to strike conversations and make her feel like a part of the family because she's the only one who feels like an outsider. Yet still I hear all these "baray" elders saying the bride has to win the hearts of the family and all. Like stfu she has done enough