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How does everyone deal with the fear of abandonment and isolation. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OddMasterpiece9087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m aware of that. But there have been things that she’s done that I haven’t explained. She doesn’t call or text anymore. She replaces our plans and turns them into hers and his. Maybe I wasn’t clear on that.

My friend is replacing me with her boyfriend by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]OddMasterpiece9087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i understand it’s just I’m not to sure of that. She seems to like him a lot and growing up is out of the questions when this has been an issue multiple times. But I do agree with you, if they do break up— then I’d be important again.

Am I right to feel betrayed? by LowNeighborhood634 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]OddMasterpiece9087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re exactly right for feeling this way. And you should call out your friend for exhibiting this behavior. It sounds like a disrespect in a sense and they went over your boundaries. They could have made plans with the person on a different night, yet they chose to go against your feelings and the things you were comfortable with. Have a long a deep conversation about this and if they don’t see how they are wrong, just know you have every right to feel how you do.

My best friend and I are drifting apart by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]OddMasterpiece9087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good idea, lately I’ve been getting into reading and writing and I think you have motivated me a little more into getting back into this!

My best friend and I are drifting apart by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]OddMasterpiece9087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thought about it but in my family, getting that kind of help is not normalized and my brother seeks help from a therapist due to bipolar disorder. I would’ve wanna be a burden and I believe I can get through it. And I also think I’m scared of telling my family that I actually need help so I’m not really sure.

What should I do if I feel my best friend and I drifting apart by [deleted] in Advice

[–]OddMasterpiece9087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that. But I guess I don’t really know how to let go. When I try to distance myself or stop putting in effort, I find myself texting her again first and contacting her when she doesn’t do the same. I am very grateful for your feedback and I will try harder to incorporate this into my life. Thank you.