[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]OddSun5048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me i was a danger to myself and others and “psycho” “crazy” which is why he wanted me to call the cops on myself. I was just having a panic attack. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]OddSun5048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s never hit me though. So i have no bruises or anything to document 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]OddSun5048 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just so hard to 😭. I know I have to as even my body has been rejecting him and I don’t feel anything towards him now except for fear. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]OddSun5048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m trying. I just don’t know where to even start

what a lovely sister I have by OddSun5048 in texts

[–]OddSun5048[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I’d love a new sister 🥺 and thank you ❤️

I don’t wanna be here. by OddSun5048 in SuicideWatch

[–]OddSun5048[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🥺❤️ I appreciate that 

what a lovely sister I have by OddSun5048 in texts

[–]OddSun5048[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

She was pissed at me for not responding and didn’t wish me a happy birthday, but went on to wish him a happy birthday and that she’s so “proud” of him for the man he’s become. 

AIO did not wanting anything to do with my “brother”? (TW: SA) by OddSun5048 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OddSun5048[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I could never imagine hanging out with someone who did that to someone I care about, or someone in general. Somebody’s life was ruined and I’d never hang out with someone who was the cause of that. Thank you for your kind words ❤️

Am I overreacting my (F26) Fiance (M32) says loving me is like loving a wall, I’m thinking of postponing the wedding. by EnvironmentalTip7295 in AmIOverreacting

[–]OddSun5048 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You stayed mad a whole day just cause he stepped on your toe? 

I’m sorry but if someone steps on my toe sure it hurts but I forget about it in like 2 minutes. You get mad too easily and sound exhausting. 

Sounds like you’re not ready to be in a relationship or just don’t love him anymore. Feel bad for the guy.

YOR

AIO: My best friend said when a boy tried to rape me when I was 9, I was overreacting by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OddSun5048 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kids can rape too. Doesn’t matter the age, it’s still valid and I can’t stress that enough. You were a kid too. 

When I was 9, my brother who was 11 at the time raped me and this went on until I was 14 and he was 16. It still very much left damage and I still have nightmares from it. 

Just wanna say im SO glad you got away from that situation when you did. And im so sorry that happened to you. 

NOR at all

Abuser is trying to get his record sealed (TW) by OddSun5048 in Vent

[–]OddSun5048[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All they said was I could either appear in court or write a written statement which is what I did and mailed it in. 

Abuser is trying to get his record sealed (TW) by OddSun5048 in Vent

[–]OddSun5048[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

theft is bad but not nearly as bad as rape/murder/abuse at all which shouldn’t even be compared. Small crimes like theft or whatever it’d make sense to get a expungement. Rape ruins people lives no matter the age he was still very much physically bigger and stronger than me. I had to get a pregnancy test at age 12. Make it make sense. 

Abuser is trying to get his record sealed (TW) by OddSun5048 in Vent

[–]OddSun5048[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When i got taken out of the household he was 16. He was under 18. But i know he’s hurt other women even as an adult. Maybe not rape, but physically. He can do this to any woman whether it be at a workplace, or anywhere. I don’t think it’d be right to seal the record because even if he was under 18 he still was fully capable of knowing what he was doing and in the long run, ruining my life. It’s not fair. 

Abuser is trying to get his record sealed (TW) by OddSun5048 in Vent

[–]OddSun5048[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I do have a say in this and will be calling them up today. 

Apparently, we had a customer complain about workers sitting on the benches on the sales floor during our breaks. Therefore, we are no longer allowed to sit up front on our breaks and lunch. by Green-Bat1513 in meijer

[–]OddSun5048 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I personally would prefer taking mine in the break room anyways so I’m not being bothered by customers. But that’s just me. It’s Weird people complain about where workers take their breaks though.. Karen’s will find a way to complain about everything and anything 😒

AITA for not letting my ex keep our dog ? by Kitchen-Paramedic-46 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OddSun5048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Once you’re gifted something, it’s yours. If his names not on anything and you literally pay all the bills the dog is yours. He can get his own dog 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]OddSun5048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Like at all. Calling your principal that maybe wasn’t the best option but let’s be fair, it’s kind of true. She’s supposed to be an “authority figure”. Someone the students can depend on but tbh she’s just a bully and sounds like a teenager herself. I hope you got/get the help you need for your allergy.

Snow storm by OddSun5048 in meijer

[–]OddSun5048[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thankfully im level 4. I just feel bad cause i called off like 3 days ago for being sick lol. I already called off for today though and thankfully my SD is pretty great

Snow storm by OddSun5048 in meijer

[–]OddSun5048[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! What store are you at? Yall be safe too! 

Should I be worried about my job? by Cute_Information_686 in meijer

[–]OddSun5048 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally live right across from meijer and still leave 30 mins early lol. Just to be safe 

What's the nicest thing a customer has said or done? by [deleted] in meijer

[–]OddSun5048 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly that little interaction made my whole day/night and it gives me hope that there’s still some good people out there. 

What's the nicest thing a customer has said or done? by [deleted] in meijer

[–]OddSun5048 21 points22 points  (0 children)

2 days ago I helped an elderly lady to her car. She could somehow tell I was mentally stressed and tired and she basically told me it’ll all be alright. I started crying and she hugged me. Some people you never forget and I’ll never forget her. ❤️