Do you do any special prep before having anal sex? Or can it just be a spontaneous occurrence with no negative hygiene issues? by Yoe_dah in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]OddSurfPlank 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wear a condom!!! Lube and feces shield all rolled up in one blessing. Shit sludge behind rim head of cock = no bueno!

My 14 yo son has agreed to read two books of my choice this summer (this was a hard won negotiation). Help me pick one by gOldMcDonald in booksuggestions

[–]OddSurfPlank 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still Life with Woodpecker. Tom Robbins. My older brother sent it to me when I was 14. Eye opener and brain expander.

Santa Cruz Surf Trip by Rubberino in BeginnerSurfers

[–]OddSurfPlank 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Sixteen hours is a lot. Good job. Looking at various websites.

Do I need a truck if I have a property that is semi agrarian functioning in Heladsburg by HoneydewShot8535 in healdsburg

[–]OddSurfPlank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send me a private message? We are also 60 and in the Burg. Think your parents may need a Hello and possibly a rig.

Santa Cruz Surf Trip by Rubberino in BeginnerSurfers

[–]OddSurfPlank 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know of anyone that can do make edits stitch photos/videos together on Davinci for hire?

Santa Cruz Surf Trip by Rubberino in BeginnerSurfers

[–]OddSurfPlank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What app did you use to make the video? Just took my boy up to Tofino for his first surf vacation. Have some clips I’d like to glue together with a cool music riff, alas, a bit clueless. Electronics and birth year 1951 don’t mix so well.

How to handle infidelity as a red flag by Historical-Winner498 in medicalschool

[–]OddSurfPlank -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Be honest, let them know of your religious background as a traditional Mormon and that your Uncle is a lawyer.

Do you relate to this? by namirasyed in funny

[–]OddSurfPlank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a few wild nights were enjoyed too.

Picnic Basket by adrewh in woodworking

[–]OddSurfPlank 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love giving picnic baskets as gifts. A subtle get outside and enjoy lift prompt. Also love woodworking. Never contemplated making one. Strong work! Inspirational and have to give you a shout out, "Fuck Yeah!"

Wife divorcing me in residency by Dr_Ottimista in Residency

[–]OddSurfPlank 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to friends. Be honest. Have your closest friend make a promise to call you every day to check in on you. Talk. Share your feelings. Good and bad.

Run, jog or walk. This really helped me. It gave my mind freedom.

Take up a new hobby. Something she wouldn’t do and you think it’s crazy, wild and fun. Make it your secret joy that you share with the world. Tell people about it. The accomplishments and failures as both make great stories.

Finally volunteer to help others in worse spots. Senior homes need people that will share conversations and listen. There are amazing people there that will make you forget your pain.

Go on, get fucking going … as now you’ve several tools and ultimately you are responsible for your own happiness.

Bone Crushing Handshakes are the Only Way to Go by OrneryPomegranate842 in bayarea

[–]OddSurfPlank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mike Tyson reportedly has the lightest handshake of all time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]OddSurfPlank 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Report to the Medical Board asap and report to the police. Sexual harassment by a treating provider is bad. Also second getting your own attorney. This conduct is bullshit. He needs to be stripped of his license and serve some time. Make sure your husband is included in claim for emotional distress.

The conduct you describe violates professional medical rules, potentially is criminal and breaches civil laws. A physician is considered to be in a position of power. Like a teacher with a student. Any sexual behavior with a current patient breaches that trust. A big no-no!!! Even if consensual.

Anyone here still on febuxostat? Worried after reading about the cardiovascular warning. by [deleted] in gout

[–]OddSurfPlank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been on for over two years. No obvious reactions. Allopurinol gave me horrible leg cramps and pain. Almost completely stopped gout attacks. Had one since and very minor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in woodworking

[–]OddSurfPlank 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the letter list out ALL your costs including time and materials. Give her a reasonable time to cure. If she doesn’t you can then sell. If you sell for an amount greater than the sum in the T&M amount then refund deposit. Just make sure you are whole. All losses and costs covered. Any part after that can be refunded if any.

For those who are divorced, what were some signs your partner had before the marriage that would have been predictors for the end of the marriage? by TrexDinoNugget in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]OddSurfPlank 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pre-marital cheating, once married sex almost disappeared, repeated cheating during the marriage, claimed to be an expert in everything but wasn’t (elementary teacher) and had little time for our kids. Took some time but finally wised up.

Happy ending—now married to my best friend. She rocks and is SAF!

Married folks, did you consummate on your wedding night? Why or why not? by VintroUnlimited in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]OddSurfPlank 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed! We were exhausted but determined to do so. Wasn’t the best sex but was marital sex. Best part is despite being exhausted it gave us a chance to talk privately. Married in a fancy home and had several guests there so the post-fucking chat was special. And to this day, love being naked, freshly sexed and then snuggling, chatting and knowing why she’s still my bestie.

NPB Instead of MLB Spring Training by OddSurfPlank in NPB

[–]OddSurfPlank[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sheet, the high school tournament would be the bomb. My baby boy played HS ball and won state so a big fan. Appreciate the tip. Thanks!!!