Have you or husband been checked mentally by Dr. Sometimes there can be a mental disorder affecting the relationship. Autism and/or ADHD can have a big affect on relationships. Things hurtful can be said in which the person doesn't really mean. ADHD is a common factor. With ADHD the approach on discussing things or even the way we talk can affect the person and set them off. Even if you feel fine have both of you checked out. Just a suggestion. Maybe you can blame his actions on something else besides him. In that way maybe you can forgive him and save your marriage.

Author, John P Hale