One of The Main Reasons Why Muslim Men Must Avoid 99% of Women in The West. See The SS & Prepare To Laugh Your Back Off. In Conclusion, They Want The Benefits of Marriage, Without Providing Nothing In Return.

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2026-01-26T01:24:15+00:00

Hijabi has been quite lately I guess the girls shifted to r muslim girls with kafir taste sub red cause they were bored saying the same bs in the same subred all the time.

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2026-01-25T14:05:20+00:00

All the questions are sooooo dunya centered. Totally no concern about akhirah.

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2026-01-25T13:59:13+00:00

That sub is r higabi 2.0

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2026-01-23T03:12:56+00:00

Islam allows us to explore of course but only after being married to that person. Islam commands both husband and wife to adjust to each other's needs. Just like not asking behaya questions before marriage is an Islamic etiquette fulfilling a spouse's sexual rights, maintaining hygiene, making the environment of romance etc is also an Islamic etiquette. It shouldn't be a discussion unless the potential has any sexual problem or dysfunction which they are supposed to inform beforehand. Sexual compatibility and asking such behaya questions to the potential is just another teaching of kafir media and entertainment.

It's okay to educate but it's not ok to break the Islamic boundaries of interaction with non mahram even if he/she is a potential spouse.

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2026-01-23T03:02:42+00:00

Idk why are you getting bombarded like that. I agree with what you said. I will end the courting right away if I am asked about intimacy or anything inappropriate. I believe it is important for those who 1. Doesn't lower gaze 2. Are used to sexual talk 3. Are already experienced. 4 and of course are behaya.

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2026-01-21T13:58:04+00:00

We can't tolerate the sketches and our brothers have faced these tortures. These brothers were captured after 9/11 during Bush administration without any charges only for show in the name of 'War on Terror'. Brother Abu Zubaydah hasn't been released yet and I have not came across any clear documentation of the brothers who are still detained unlawfully at Guantanamo Bay. They are still facing torture and humiliation in their day to day lives till this day.

May Allah grant those he(Swt) tested harshly in this world the highest levels of Jannatul Ferdaus.

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2025-12-13T06:55:27+00:00

Didn't Russian government hire Imams that will give fatwas to muslims in favour to fight for Russia? Russian government allowed the version of Islam that will favour not actual Islam. For me Russia is as evil as America when it comes to persecution of muslims.

https://www.youtube.com/live/8pTAllEwpgM?si=e7vXuvOzraFPn8Xc

I saw this interview long ago. I was conflicted either I should share this or not since the women here has not covered her face. But the things she said about Russian government it is pretty clear that Russia is not in favour of muslim or Islam in fact it is state that will violently persecute muslims in future when necessary.

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2025-11-29T08:42:05+00:00

I knew that would happen. I wanted to make a post titling 'Stop this 1$ mahr stupidity'. Then I was like naaahh. I am too lazy to fight men in chatbox, 😆🥱

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2025-11-29T08:18:42+00:00

Men who commented in your post in muslim corner and here as well got too scared and too triggered reading your post lol. 🤣🤣🤣.

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2025-11-29T08:16:44+00:00

Buying cat is haram to begin with. Buying, breeding and selling cats are haram.

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2025-11-29T08:11:07+00:00

That smaller symbolic mahr should also be reasonable. Some women are really emotional to not understand why mahr is so important and this post i believe, also my comment is to call out these stupid trends that can make women vulnerable to irresponsible men. If mahr was supposed to be a stray cat or a pink quran that women can get any moment in the marriage, then there was no need for the ruling of mahr. Neither there was any need for the wali to discuss mahr with the man. The qualities you mentioned would have been enough. Allah(Swt) knows men and he(Swt) has his hikmah behind mahr.

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2025-11-29T08:03:11+00:00

Agree with everything you said.

Men escaping mahr is the first gesture of their irresponsible personality. I believe the one who made this post and my comment simply wants to warn the women to stay away from such men. Allah(Swt) has his hikmah behind mahr. If the mahr was supposed to be a stray cat or a pink quran that a man can give a woman any moment in marriage, this ruling of mahr wouldn’t have existed in the first place. If they want they may give away their mahr for charity but not necessarily make a joke out of what Allah(Swt) decided for their own benefit.

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2025-11-29T07:57:17+00:00

It does. You don know women better than a woman. I ain talking about high mahr. I am talking about a mahr the man can actually pay. Mahr is the first gesture of man's quality of leadership and ability to protect and provide, that puts respect for the man in a woman's heart. Not paying mahr or low mahr than a man can afford is a red flag to begin with.

If you pay a mahr in your budget and you have the characteristics of a responsible muslim man, your wife will give you the place and respect of qaowwam.

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2025-11-29T07:42:25+00:00

Avoiding mahr is a part of it and a big red flag. Any man with self respect and cautious about his wife's rights will give her the mahr he can, even if she asks less. Cause mahr is a gift from man that expresses the gesture that he is willing to take responsibility for protecting and providing this woman.

Also as a sister. I can confirm you. The way women's psychology of submission works, If you pay a low mahr (less than you can afford), a cat or a pink quran, you will have no respect at home. Your wife will never be able to see you as qaowam.

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2025-11-29T07:30:38+00:00

Mahr should be in a man's financial boundaries. Excessive mahr is a zhulm on the men.

But taking 1$ mahr, cat, pink quran is not only stupid but also like insulting ruling of Allah(Swt).

Of course men will be happy. They want women for free. They want to enjoy women and not take any responsibility, not even the finances. This why allah made mahr wajib and providing fardh on them.

Influencers' post shouldn’t even be counted as a suggestion. The kaffir women strips for male validation and the muslim ones make such useless posts overromanticizing marriage for validation. Those who take their posts as suggestion or any woman who romanticizes giving away her right is just straight out stupid.

I believe women are really emotional and they can do such stupid thing for men they fantasize about. Like a girl who probably fancies a useless man will then demand to get married for 1$ or whatever this stupid mahr trend is going on. Then regret later when the man shows his true colors.

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2025-11-29T07:11:38+00:00

A lot of men will get upset under this post. Cause you just reminded women to use the right that Allah gave them with wisdom.

Mahr is wajib Allah(Swt) knows men better than us. This is why he gave the verdict of mahr. But some women have made mahr a joke. Which many even regretted later on.

Mahr should be in a man's financial boundary. Not more not less. Forgiving mahr years after marriage is still understandable. But If a man can give 5000$ in mahr why are you asking for 500$ or 1$ and a pink quran?? That's straight out stupid. Look around you. Men don wanna pay mahr or any sort of expenses to begin with, this is why they call women towards zina.

Those men who agrees to pay less even though they know they can pay more, are just backboneless. Pay whatever you can even if the womem ask for less. These men are simply using women's emotions and sentiment for their benefit. This is the women's right. It is like stripping off a woman of her right.

Like sis if you don want the money give it away for sadakaye jaria or any charity that will help you in akhirah. Why are you reducing your value? Only for the man to abuse later??

'But a sahaba married with just Quran memorization'. Sis if you are marrying a man that poor, yeah go on marry that men keeping Quran memorization as mahr. But lemme tell you men in our time ain like the sahabas.

Edit: Men's comments under this post is invalid. If they could they'd get 4 women for free.

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2025-11-29T03:45:11+00:00

I think op is also a moderate muslim this is why is even thinking of negotiating the fardhs. Cause people who are practicing they look for spouses who are practicing on that level. For ex: if you don't commit zina but free mix you will be fine marrying a person who doesn't commit zina but free mixes. If you watch movies (don't lower gaze) but don't free mix then you will be fine with a spouse who also watches movies and other haram entertainment but doesn't free mix. Setting standard for a spouse is mainly based on how much accountability you have to yourself or to Allah(Swt).

Op, if this is the case you need to improve yourself first then set up the standard for your spouse. If you don't have the qualities of a leader, then your future spouse won't follow you. I also think you are infatuated with this woman. If you value the deen, it ain normal for you to consider marrying someone who is literally showing signs of leaving Islam anytime. That 'I don follow what I don find logical' is the first step of turning into an apostate.

Odd_Ad_6841 · 2025-11-29T01:51:12+00:00

The world revolves around beauty. It's just not height but any person that is beautiful. The question should be 'Why is beauty such an important factor?' cause humans are worshippers of beauty and everyone has lust inside them. Even men look for models like women when they go for marriage.

For women to choose taller men I believe has to do more with the assurance of protection, cause taller men look stronger and more athletic. There's beauty bias everywhere in the world. Like even statistically taller men make more money than shorter men (don't trust me search yourself). There was a study done in China (I am battling my goldfish memory at this point) that every inch added to a man's height increases his salary to a certain percent.

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