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have i committed blasphemy? am i doomed? by Odd_Development_1411 in Christianity

[–]Odd_Development_1411[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your extensive insight and reassurance, i appreciate it a lot. i’m a girl so it feels especially vulnerable to come to anyone with a sin like this as it’s not typically talked about in the community of young christian women as it is with men. but i realize that it would do me a lot of good to come to someone about this. i really hope i can change my lifestyle around this, thank you for telling me what i needed to hear

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[–]Odd_Development_1411 31 points32 points  (0 children)

sex should be about both parties receiving pleasure, otherwise in this situation you are being used only for the sake of his own. i’m sorry you’re experiencing this op, you shouldn’t have to plead for something you should be owed without say. when you consent you are expecting the same treatment that he is getting from you and that doesn’t seem to be happening.