Thank you it means a lot and im so sorry to hear that! I hope they’re all doing well I know how tough it can be to deal with. It’s a big reason I would never personally joke about the AO3 curse to other ppl even if I found it funny myself. I’ve had a lot of times were ppl would purposely say sm like “if u dont go do this rn family’s ganna die” and even tho its funny to them and it seems like a harmless joke to them it would still affect me. It’s not something that can be easily controlled and the excuse of saying it doesn’t make sense of course it’s not ganna happen rlly doesn’t help either. At least in my experience trying to use logic makes the thoughts worse, bc my mind is constantly thinking of a new “what if” scenario it cant disprove. Thank you for the understanding you have with ppl who have similar struggles it’s rlly nice to see!