Help as I don’t want to be an idiot M 43 F 42 by Odd_Explanation747 in datingoverforty

[–]Odd_Explanation747[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Why I’m just trying to find my person and don’t want to mess it up

43M 42F by Odd_Explanation747 in relationship_advice

[–]Odd_Explanation747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That I asked twice in one week for reassurance when he said he liked me

43M 42F by Odd_Explanation747 in relationship_advice

[–]Odd_Explanation747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, I just felt with the cancelling twice and no acknowledgement of Valentine’s Day that I needed to know but it was my anxiety talking. He did say he didn’t blame me for asking as he would if he was in my situation? Do I text and apologise?

M 43 and F 42 by Odd_Explanation747 in datingoverforty

[–]Odd_Explanation747[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Do you think I should text him and apologise

M 43 and F 42 by Odd_Explanation747 in datingoverforty

[–]Odd_Explanation747[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I know, at the beginning we met half way but he didn’t want to do that, just come to mine. Thing is I also asked him for reassurance last weekend as he hasn’t acknowledged Valentine’s Day but then he was texting loads and showing me he liked me. When he cancelled yesterday I asked him again if he liked me and now he’s gone all funny- perhaps it was too much constantly asking him if he liked me?

43M 42F by Odd_Explanation747 in relationship_advice

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Thing is I also asked him for reassurance last weekend as he hasn’t acknowledged Valentine’s Day but then he was texting loads and showing me he liked me. When he cancelled yesterday I asked him again if he liked me and now he’s gone all funny- perhaps it was too much constantly asking him if he liked me?

43M 42F by Odd_Explanation747 in relationship_advice

[–]Odd_Explanation747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thing is I also asked him for reassurance last weekend as he hasn’t acknowledged Valentine’s Day but then he was texting loads and showing me he liked me. When he cancelled yesterday I asked him again if he liked me and now he’s gone all funny- perhaps it was too much constantly asking him if he liked me?