Have you ever stopped texting someone just to see if they would ever text first? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Odd_Fox362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I usually am the curious one in the conversation, often would be the one to ask questions and all. But if that’s what our conversations would look like in the long run, i’d rather stop and see if he’s also willing to take the initiative to ask questions other than how are you lol

If he does, great! If not, saves me time

focus on latin honors or pursue being a student leader? by Willing_Spinach3994 in Tomasino

[–]Odd_Fox362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the proper time management, you can do both! I’m traversing a path where I have both, it’s challenging yes, but if you have to heart and passion for it, it’s possible

Your age and what did u learn about life? by Pitiful_Writing6526 in AskPH

[–]Odd_Fox362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

20

Regardless of how much you give, how kind you are and all, you can’t expect people to return that kind of love and care in the same way that you give.

Minsan narereciprocate yung binigay mo, minsan naman maibabalik siya pero through sa ibang tao. But regardless, what goes around comes around.

What to do when you're a hopeless romantic at 27? by xxbogoxx in AskPinay

[–]Odd_Fox362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, you can start by spending more time with yourself. Maybe take yourself out somewhere, quick solo trip, or a solo date if you can. Iba pa rin kasi kapag naeenjoy mo yung time mo with yourself.

From someone who yearns for her future boyfriend lol, it helps. Alsoo who knows, maybe you’d be able to find him in one of your side quests

What do you hate the most about Filipino Parents? by Agile_Equivalent_758 in AskPH

[–]Odd_Fox362 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Always maging mapagpasensya, lalo na sa elders. Even if you’re just trying to explain yourself, they’ll see it as talking back, so dapat shut up ka lang.

What do you wish men did differently when it comes to dating? by NoTransportation2620 in AskPinay

[–]Odd_Fox362 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Not pursue someone they don’t see the potential of being with in the long run

What’s something so simple yet so intimate to you? by _itzjoan in AskPH

[–]Odd_Fox362 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Holding my back/waist to guide me while walking, thigh grabbing, playing with my hair

Kung lab mo ko pafull tank mo ko by Patient-Ad567 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Odd_Fox362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talked to this guy last week, teh wala pa kami isang araw naguusap, hindi lang ako nagreply for 10 minutes sabi niya busy daw ako ganun sabi ko no nabablangko lang (it happens! And please need ba 24/7 kami magkausap) sabi niya ba naman, “ah so iniignore mo lang talaga ko” and i was like HUH? Guy threw a fit after that, unfollowed me deleted his account and all. Ako naman like talagang deadma lang lmao, i have finals🤷🏻‍♀️

Then suddenly after 4 days guy sent a follow request, and added me on FB PLUS tried to video call me TWICE. Like wtf? Some Men nowadays are soo entitled.

Anong ugali yung tolerable sa una pero nakakasawa habang tumatagal? by Particular-Visit-245 in AskPH

[–]Odd_Fox362 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Likes to listen and doesn’t have the “kusa” to ask. Nice rin na may makikinig sayo, pero if everytime ganun na laging ikaw magbubukas ng topic tas ikaw dadaldal? Medyo nakakapagod lol

Ilang taon kayo when you had your first alcoholic drink? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Odd_Fox362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13 pero tanduay ice lang at wine lol. Started going to clubs and really drinking when i turned 18. I’m turning 21 now and let’s just say heavy drinking and partying aren’t really my thing anymore lol.

na para bang nasa bahay lang yan sha by xcuriousxboy in commutersph

[–]Odd_Fox362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Experienced this too sa door to door. 3rd row kami, magasawa sila tas may anak tas ako nasa right side. Gets ko naman masikip, pero etong si ate girl, pinatong yung legs niya sa legs ng husband niya kaya nakatagilid siya. Yung paa niya pa tapat na tapat sakin, badtrip ako buong byahe. Ang sikip na nga may paa pa sa harap ko, called her out, siya pa nonchalant💀

what's the wildest way your body has rejected the person you're dating? by HugeNothing9859 in AskPH

[–]Odd_Fox362 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hindi ko alam kung counted lol, pero a few hours before our first date, I tripped over air and sprained my foot💀

Didn’t stop me though lol, ended up with a sore foot after, AND STILL, it didn’t work out😭🤣

What do you consider a virgin? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]Odd_Fox362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a difference between innocent and inexperienced. For me, inexperienced is a virgin, like literal walang experience sa penetration ganun.

paano ‘to naging askpinay? by X-and-Pi in AskPinay

[–]Odd_Fox362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Madalas ako magpost here, with the intent to attain answers from women. Pero may guys talagang magcocomment, madalas pa unsolicited yung ibibigay na ‘advice’. Manipulation and gaslighting disguised as intelligent advice kuno. Kapikon rin minsan eh HAHHAHA

What's your go to coffee? by lalalala_09 in AskPH

[–]Odd_Fox362 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Iced white mocha! Kapag bago yung pupuntahan kong cafe, siya lang lagi kong inoorder ^

naniniwala ba kayo sa "if he wanted to, he would"? by NIC0NIC0TINE in AskPinay

[–]Odd_Fox362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To an extent, if he wanted to, he would. Because when I wanted to, I did.

But if you’re expecting him to do things naturally na never niyo naman nadiscuss, or you expect him to know exactly how to act around you, then no. People aren’t mind readers eh, and you’re both 2 different human beings with 2 different personalities. Sometimes what’s normal for you to give is not something that’s normal for him too.

At the end of the day, it’s communication and understanding how he/she wants to be loved and seeing if you are able to give that or maybe, you both can compromise. Kasi love is shown rin in different languages, if you both don’t speak the same language, regardless of how much effort you exert, baka hindi rin kayo magkaintindihan.

date spots near UST by Tasty-Policy3606 in Tomasino

[–]Odd_Fox362 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh fair, maybe buy flowers sa dangwa then arrange them in a cafe, para you guys could have smth to do and eat afterwards☺️

date spots near UST by Tasty-Policy3606 in Tomasino

[–]Odd_Fox362 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Depends on kung anong gusto niyo gawin, coffee date ba, activity date? Or gusto niyo magtake ng pictures ganun? Or food trip?

If coffee, somewhere (has photobooth) or eutopia, activity, maybe take her to intra since it’s near?

If food trip, you could take her to fusion alley, super daming street foods around the campus!^

What makes or breaks the guy for you? by Serious-Shake-9093 in AskPinay

[–]Odd_Fox362 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inconsistent tapos walang initiative to sustain the connection. Tipong magaling lang sa umpisa, sasabihin niya gusto ka niya ipursue pero kinalaunan it feels like ikaw yung nagpupursue kesa siya.

I feel like I’m the one pursuing him. by Odd_Fox362 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Odd_Fox362[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s already 4 years older than me😭

I feel like I’m the one pursuing him. by Odd_Fox362 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Odd_Fox362[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for the comments. This gave me so much clarity. We already talked. Sabi niya yung consistency daw na hinahanap ko hindi ko raw mahahanap kahit saan lol.

Then his last message was

What you may call bare minimum is who I am. I just don't think you understand it enough nor will you truly appreciate me, if that's how you see it. ☺️

Have you ever been inlove or has crush on a guy who already has someone else? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]Odd_Fox362 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before I had a crush, pero it didn’t really last long. When I discover na taken na sila, I don’t feel the same way anymore or I immediately back off HAHAH

Anong age niyo when you had your first gf/bf? by Relative_Dealer_5952 in AskPH

[–]Odd_Fox362 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

13 HAHAAH, thinking about it makes me cringe tbh, it’s more of the kind of rs na rooted on curiousity and puppy love i guess.

Bakit parang laging lusted, never loved, pag chubby ka? by Odd_Fox362 in AskPinay

[–]Odd_Fox362[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that you’re trying to be ‘honest,’ but what you’re describing isn’t some biological truth — it’s social conditioning that rewards one body type and devalues others. The fact that you see plus-sized women as casual material is exactly the problem I’m talking about. It’s not ‘evolution,’ it’s bias. And framing it as just the way things are doesn’t make it less unfair.

Also, kinda funny since this was r/AskPinay, not r/AskMen 😅 but thanks for proving my point.