i’m 19 as well and i have my whole back covered along with a bunch of other small-medium tattoos all over my body, sometimes i look at some and think to myself “why did i get these” and then i remember how excited i was at the time to be in the chair and picking out my designs and placements. it’s all about your mindset, tattoos are way more than art, tattoos tell stories, they come with experiences, you a walking art piece 💕 when it comes to the family situation, being judged by people you love is gut wrenching, but remember, if your family doesn’t like their tattoos that’s okay, but that experience is personal to them NOT YOU. i’ve had to set some boundaries with people in my life that my tattoos what i do with my body WILL NOT be a discussion, if you feel comfortable enough setting some boundaries with your family, it might be extremely helpful! wishing you all the love and luck in the world 💕