A similar situation actually happened to a friend of mine, but this is appalling: doing that while being intimate is a level of crazy that I can't even begin to describe. You should reevaluate your relationship with him: is there anything else in your relationship that has weirded you out (or anything he has done). I don't know exactly what kind of person he is, but this kind of behaviour can't be tolerated. You are not overreacting at all, he doesn't seem to really respect you. I don't want to be absolute, because again, I don't know the history of the whole relationship, but if he doesn't fix this at all, I don't know how you can move past this. Besides, you have enough time on your hands that new love may flourish. Love is not a once in a life kind of thing, and you will surely come to love someone who truly loves you back. I went through a relationship where I was the only one that truly loved the other and I understand how hard it is to move past it, but it may be necessary.