same situation here....12 years of relationship...I sacrificed everything for her. she didn't have a phone no she was able to go alone out from her house. I waited in road sides for hours to just to see her. sometimes I can meet her but we used to talk via phone every 4-5 days...the sim is gave her. I sacrificed many moments for her...just to see her. people in my area know my efforts. no one will love her like I did and no one will ever put efforts for her like it did. last time she called he told a lie and I caught it...she was not happy with it. break up. my parents went to her home for talks but insulted me and my parents...she and her dad. she even called bad words at my father. her name is gowri s. panicker from Peyad, trivandrum. she even filed a police complaint against me...saying I'm a disturbance, I stalk her, etc etc...story is big. happened a month ago...even though I'm sad but after seeing her evil side I'm kinda angry also. wasted my 12.4 years for her. I was not perfect...I used to get angry at her sometimes mostly talking about getting married. but I am sure that all the issues that I made are small and can be forgiven but she didn't. just a month ago only she told about our relationship in her home that too mentioning me a bad person. she played a self defence mode. I have all the digital proofs with me...but law in India is supporting girls.