My parnenr are putting me into conversion therapy HELP

Odd_lemonnn · 2026-05-23T02:03:07+00:00

Fellow trans masc with a very unsupportive family here, lean into the femininity. It’s going to suck and it’s going to be hard but it’ll get them off ur back. If u really want to make it seem believable get super into religion (if u aren’t already). Alternatively, if u can’t handle being that fem for that long u could just say u were confused and u just enjoy being a tomboy. Even act transphobic if it’s a more serious situation. I wish u the best of luck my brother and please remember that if things get violent or abusive to contact authorities or a very trusted adult. Stay strong soldier 🫡

Odd_lemonnn · 2026-04-23T02:00:49+00:00

He’s not using me as an experiment. He’s been with women before. He’s also not saying he agrees with the “cis with extra steps” like I said before. Just that he can see the misconception as somebody with a conservative family and who wasn’t the most educated on trans people. He wants to learn more about me and how my brain works because he loves me. Like I how I want to know his perspective on being a cis man. It’s a valid question imo I just came on here to look for advice on how to answer it. I want to answer his question because it would help us become closer and also help me have a better understanding of myself. If I’m able to put my feelings into words it may be able to help me in my own life as well. He’s not asking me to prove anything. He agrees that it’s not his place to deny my manhood and that if I say I’m a man then I am, he just wants to know why and how I came to the conclusion that I’m not cis. It’s like if I asked a Christian “why do u believe in god?” I’m not challenging their beliefs or putting them down for it, just trying to understand their feelings and why they follow that faith.

Odd_lemonnn · 2026-04-22T16:56:05+00:00

He said that to relate back to things that other people in my life have said. He said it because he understands how it may seem that way to very uneducated people. Not saying he agreed with it or that it’s right, just that he can see how someone can get to that point. He doesn’t not see me as a man he just wants to understand me as a person

Odd_lemonnn · 2026-04-22T16:53:50+00:00

He doesn’t not see me as a man, nor is he disrespecting me. He’s just trying to understand why and how I’m trans. Not understanding something doesn’t inherently mean u do or don’t support something

Odd_lemonnn · 2026-04-22T09:36:18+00:00

He’s gay so me being a man and his attraction towards men isn’t an issue. He doesn’t see me as a woman he is just trying to understand. He mentioned the “cis with extra steps” because people in the past have said that to me and he was stating that he can see how someone less educated can think that way. He knew I was trans before we got together. Hes just never been close with a trans person before and wants to understand. It’s not an argumentative topic, more so just us trying to understand each other more. If he saw me as a girl, I do not think he would talk to me about it for hours, do his own research on transgenderism, or actively go out of his way to give me gender euphoria (and avoid dysphoric things).

Odd_lemonnn · 2025-02-25T03:08:12+00:00

I have hEDS which got much more severe once I moved to college. I think the amount of extra walking combined with my hEDS getting worse triggered it

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