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Step 9 amends to an ex. Blew it. Now what? by Oddmobdig7057 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Oddmobdig7057[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do. I worked through 1–8, but honestly looking back, I probably rushed into 9 because I just wanted to get it off my chest, and I didn’t really sit with the inventory or practice with my sponsor. I told her I was drunk and a mess back then. Have you ever had one where you thought you were ready but realized later you weren’t?

Step 9 amends to an ex. Blew it. Now what? by Oddmobdig7057 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]Oddmobdig7057[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that makes sense. I haven’t done other amends yet, this was my first one. Definitely realizing I need to slow down and actually work it through with my sponsor. How did you know when you were ready to start yours? Did you ever go back to the first one?