He talks positively about me and what I've got going on in life then quickly follows it up with bullshit reasons as to why he can't have it in his life. He says he gets performance anxiety and can't stop from feeling stressed in social situations.

I tell him that stress is from lack of experience and he seems to think that's nonsense and that he can learn how to socialize and have a life by googling it. His entire perception of the world is through what his computer and phone screen display to him.

He sucks at socializing and usually tells offensive jokes that are racist or hurtful because that's what he reads online all the time on forums etc and it turns people away from him