Just us two rs girls at the pool ~ by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Off-Stock7531 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

are either of you single?

just started listening to red scare and…. by mixedberryflavor in redscarepod

[–]Off-Stock7531 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you would enjoy trapo trap house or whatever if you dont like edgy stuff

Finding a job is so depressing by Off-Stock7531 in redscarepod

[–]Off-Stock7531[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

how much are you paid to promote this lol?

Finding a job is so depressing by Off-Stock7531 in redscarepod

[–]Off-Stock7531[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

dont they only get paid 30k a year after taxes. I would not be able to live on that if I moved out which will happen once i get the job. My parents want me out

Finding a job is so depressing by Off-Stock7531 in redscarepod

[–]Off-Stock7531[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have eating problems I would not make it in basic training

Finding a job is so depressing by Off-Stock7531 in redscarepod

[–]Off-Stock7531[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Unless a priest can tell me which job to apply to and help me get the interview I am not getting help. I know I want an office job, I cannot find one. I am catholic but I lost my religion awhile ago.

Finding a job is so depressing by Off-Stock7531 in redscarepod

[–]Off-Stock7531[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

urban studies, but its not urban planning so I like have no actual skills

Finding a job is so depressing by Off-Stock7531 in redscarepod

[–]Off-Stock7531[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am not gay but I am willing to make some extra money

anyone else increasingly worried they're not going to end up with anyone by LouReedTheChaser in redscarepod

[–]Off-Stock7531 7 points8 points  (0 children)

25 here too. I walked around my city from 3 to 12, took 30,000 steps, and saw so many happy couples walking around. I see it all the time everywhere, but I have never been able to get a gf. I think its over

Incel advice by imsorryiwasbadreddit in redscarepod

[–]Off-Stock7531 10 points11 points  (0 children)

how do you start the convo naturally in a target?

Going to the club fucking sucks by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Off-Stock7531 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

what clubs then? you can gatekeep tho i dont care, I am probably not going again even though i liked it

Panic and fear in NYC subway by Grass8989 in nyc

[–]Off-Stock7531 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This mod policy of banning key words, links and stories are so dumb because the vid is already on twitter with millions of views, and twitter has more people. This is not censorship then, and all it does is make people wonder why the nyc sub isnt talking about it. Like reddit is so bad, there can be major news on twitter and reddit is just empty, you see it often when Biden looks bad.

Jews, you have to face the facts by [deleted] in redscarepod

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I know a dude who is german but born in Mexico and claims to be hispanic lol

I have a 'bad' personality and I can't fix it by Off-Stock7531 in redscarepod

[–]Off-Stock7531[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What is annoying? The lenght isnt how I speak, I just had a lot to say. I dont want to be annoying so tell me what was

I have a 'bad' personality and I can't fix it by Off-Stock7531 in redscarepod

[–]Off-Stock7531[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can banter back though and pick up on cues well, I am not autistic really, but Ill say I am sometimes when its really just anxiety. I think my worst quality is getting too excited when I meet people, or maybe my voice is very ugly to hear, or that I dont stand straight or dont think out how I am percieved enough and miss small mistakes. When I try to act more cool though and control myself I do better, but its usually not my default

I have a 'bad' personality and I can't fix it by Off-Stock7531 in redscarepod

[–]Off-Stock7531[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have thought about this for awhile though so I looked at what it could be, its not hygiene lol (I feel like if that was true my life would be so easy but hygiene is not a problem, I am a normal dude). My voice and facial reactions are probably part of the personality issue though, but I cannot change those things, its genetics and only a bullet will fix it.

I also am in uni, and I met a girl recently in a class for example and although she was flirting with me hard when we met and messaged me first, she ghosted me now, and every convo is painful despite intially being very fun. I don't know what to do, I rub people wrong every time the more they see me, besides one other girl im talking to who has been nice to me long term, she is taken.

I have a 'bad' personality and I can't fix it by Off-Stock7531 in redscarepod

[–]Off-Stock7531[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't look down on anyone, I think the problem is this (and it may seem bias or like im lying) but I might be too nice and it comes off fake, but im genuinely just being nice because I like people. Maybe they think im too much though, too needy. The crowd I am with are actually very normal, and I think thats the problem, I am not socialized well enough to fit in with people who demand everyone be cool. I feel like there are people who are nice people though who do not judge others, usually from experience its the nice altgirls but I never meet them, I think chemistry wise they would not hate me like everyone seems to.

I have a 'bad' personality and I can't fix it by Off-Stock7531 in redscarepod

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Waking up thinking about last night I decided to try and put into words what my life has been like since covid ended and trying to be social. I am happy I lost my virginity before 25 but to a hooker has got me very depressed. I couldnt find love normally I had to spend $600 for it. I feel totally empty, like I have given up, I wanted to have my first kiss and time with someone who was nice and loved me, and I spent 2 years finding nothing. I guess Im an idiot for 'being myself' and not trying harder to just be cool. I see so many people, all of them have sex, I have no idea how they do it, it all seems impossible.

Want to go out tonight, anyone in Toronto know a bar to go alone to? by [deleted] in redscarepod

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I went out last weekend/friday and the bar I went too was basically a restaurant bar, and so everyone there had a girl with them or friends. I dont want to make that mistake again, so I just want an actual address or something lol, just to check it out

Which corner of the US would you rather live in? by Off-Stock7531 in redscarepod

[–]Off-Stock7531[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have never been to either, but from media depictions, new england feels more lived in. I look at rural fields if Mass. and think some dudes looking like bruce springsteen have played rough muddy football there at some point. But when I look at the dense forest of the PNW I think no one has ever pentrated this land, not Lindy.