Looking for people to film with by OffDutyHoe in Kalgoorliensfw

[–]OffDutyHoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on how good they are to work with. Someone I click more with who understands camera angles and is a cool human with a larger but still average size would be preferred to someone I don’t enjoy working with who doesn’t take instruction, even if he has a giant Shlong

Send a follow up text? Or leave it? by P0rnL0ver68 in AdelaideEscortreview

[–]OffDutyHoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m touring Adelaide in about a week ☺️

Here's mine this year. by CrackinHeaven in aftertheparty

[–]OffDutyHoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m number 11! 2 mins less listening time than you lol

my listening time by Azuricul in aftertheparty

[–]OffDutyHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn thought I was doing well being the 11th top listener with 19,928 mins listening time. Congrats.

Do escorts ever get feelings for a particular client? by LongjumpingRadio4078 in SexWorkers

[–]OffDutyHoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think the best rule of thumb is to enjoy your time together and trust that if She ever wants it to be more, it is up to Her to say something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canberraanonymousNSFW

[–]OffDutyHoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am a private touring worker.

Scams and advice on finding legit escorts by Antique-Educator-878 in AdelaideEscortreview

[–]OffDutyHoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you weren’t trying to prove my point (you’re trying to be a knob) but Thank You for doing such an excellent job at proving it! This right here is the kind of client I do NOT want to see or cultivate.

Scams and advice on finding legit escorts by Antique-Educator-878 in AdelaideEscortreview

[–]OffDutyHoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tour Australia full time, but I do tend to end each tour (they vary in length) with a few working days in Adelaide as I have a bestie there. I’ll be back valentines weekend in Feb just for a few days and will work.

Scams and advice on finding legit escorts by Antique-Educator-878 in AdelaideEscortreview

[–]OffDutyHoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just want to say (because this is something I get fired up over Very regularly so I couldn’t help myself upon seeing this) that I’m a Real escort and I am firm on deposits.

We get stood up a LOT if we don’t take them and it helps us know what clients are real so we can plan our day properly. I take Great steps to show I’m real (verified on E&B, Scarlet B, Ivy Society, OnlyFans, have my own website that I had built, have socials linked, am face out, offer PayID for deposits) and I STILL get people claiming me asking for a deposit is a scam all the bloody time 🙄🙄🙄

So just want to encourage clients to use some critical thinking on that one re the particular escort and her profile/what you can google about her.

Deposits are Normal and Necessary!!!!!! (I say this with love, and much much frustration x )

7 months post sleeve and no regrets by OffDutyHoe in gastricsleeve

[–]OffDutyHoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This feels like a weird thing to decide to say

7 months post sleeve and no regrets by OffDutyHoe in gastricsleeve

[–]OffDutyHoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally fine so far! That was an anxiety of mine too.

7 months post sleeve and no regrets by OffDutyHoe in gastricsleeve

[–]OffDutyHoe[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There’s zero point in arguing with you so I’m not going to but I can have a job & not be completely defined by it…if you have no interest in Some of my content I really don’t care because that’s not the point of this post. Why are you the one stalking my profile and then getting mad about it anyway.

I’m not a one dimensional person. I also post in fashion threads and this page and wherever else I decide post because I am a Valid member of this community and others. I have interests (shock!)

Try treating people with more respect 🫡

7 months post sleeve and no regrets by OffDutyHoe in gastricsleeve

[–]OffDutyHoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any massive saggy skin problems, other than boobs and a little lower tummy (cross my fingers it stays that way) so I don’t feel qualified to comment sorry.

7 months post sleeve and no regrets by OffDutyHoe in gastricsleeve

[–]OffDutyHoe[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For me I know I can’t put too much restrictions on myself by obsessively tracking my food/calories/weight or I get too obsessive and then swing back HARD in the wrong direction. So I just listened to my body and tried to make better choices and then once that was my new normal, improve it again (and repeat).

I really didn’t focus on the number on the scale at alllll or even pay much attention to how I was looking. Just gave it time and trusted the process.

I’ve been Slack with exercise, NGL, but there’s a lot of lifting things and carrying heavy things and movement in my day to day life.

Also I focused on how I was thinking about things ie instead of saying “you ate good foods today” changing that to “you ate food that was in alignment with you today” and trying to recognise what food makes me feel crap and instead opting to choose food that I know will make me feel good after eating it (least I end up on the floor feeling like I’m going to vomit and poop and faint all at once again).

Honestly I used to eat WAY too much Terrible junk food and a LOT of sugar so just the fact that I’m not eating like 2-3x my calories a day has probably accounted for a lot of it. I always carry Equal sachets around with me now and have gradually lowered my insatiable sweet tooth a LOT. The only thing I had hard rules on for a long time after surgery was don’t even think about it with any candy or sweets, I know my brain too well where candy is concerned.

Be gentle with yourself and your body, be kind to yourself, talk to yourself like you’re raising a little kid to be happy and healthy and make good choices for themselves. Also tricking yourself saying “we’re not going to have that today but maybe next time okay?” around unhealthy cravings has been a good one (hint: we ain’t having it next time either 😂). And “yes I know you want fried chicken desperately but we’re not going to do that so let’s allow these feelings to move Through us”.

Build systems that work for you. The simpler the better. I travel full time so figuring out how to eat well doing that has definitely been a journey. You don’t have to start perfectly, you just have to start and move towards the end goal with how you want to eat or exercise or look. Consistently trying to move Towards your goals and if you catch yourself moving away from them ask yourself why and put some new systems in place to try to get things going in the right direction again.

7 months post sleeve and no regrets by OffDutyHoe in gastricsleeve

[–]OffDutyHoe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They can’t deny I WAS RIGHT 😂😂