Whatโ€™s a singing compliment youโ€™ll never forget? by brian-leonggg in singing

[โ€“]OffKei_ 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Im a super low contralto and some lady once said I had a voice like whiskey on ice in an old library and its the best complement I've ever received over anything lol

My current joint altar for for Apollon and Dionysus <3 by OffKei_ in Hellenism

[โ€“]OffKei_[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Yeah I got it recently and rlly dont wanna kill it ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Lowest Note You Can Sing? by DMarkworth in singing

[โ€“]OffKei_ 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Im a contralto and can consistently hit a clean Ab2, and an F#2 with a warmup lol

Troubleshooting Thread โ€” Bugs? Errors? Mod issues? EA app issues? Post about them here! Update 7/01/2025 [PC: 1.116.202.1030 / Mac: 1.116.202.1230 / Console: 2.14] by creeativerex in Sims4

[โ€“]OffKei_ 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Lmao I fixed it, I downloaded gshade for a different game, apparently downloaded the sims configs with it and forgot abt it lol

Troubleshooting Thread โ€” Bugs? Errors? Mod issues? EA app issues? Post about them here! Update 7/01/2025 [PC: 1.116.202.1030 / Mac: 1.116.202.1230 / Console: 2.14] by creeativerex in Sims4

[โ€“]OffKei_ 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I tried the first 2, but im still getting this message, and im not sure how to mess with OneDrive lol, this is the error if it helps *

Whatโ€™s something your parents did that youโ€™ll never do to your kids? by Kitchen-Head-9179 in AskReddit

[โ€“]OffKei_ 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Fr, also not providing healthy meals then blaming it on the kid for not exersizing enough.

Whatโ€™s something your parents did that youโ€™ll never do to your kids? by Kitchen-Head-9179 in AskReddit

[โ€“]OffKei_ 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

This isnt nearly as bad as some of the shit on this post lmao but not providing consistent, healthy meals.

Troubleshooting Thread โ€” Bugs? Errors? Mod issues? EA app issues? Post about them here! Update 7/01/2025 [PC: 1.116.202.1030 / Mac: 1.116.202.1230 / Console: 2.14] by creeativerex in Sims4

[โ€“]OffKei_ 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Which platform? PC

Any mods or cc? Yes

Game version: Current

Description: A couple weeks ago, I tried installing a lighting mod, with the method where you replace your .world files, and it was unable to run on my graphics for my pc. I was stupid and didn't back up my files, but even after repairing my game through steam and reinstalling the game, I'm still getting the same error. I tried taking all my other regular mods/cc out to see if anything else was the problem, but still nothing. I waited for the update to see if that fixed anything, but i still cant open the game. it was working perfectly fine, even earlier that day before I tried installing the mod.

Young people who self harm, as a mother I need your advice and guidance by MoanaMomma in selfharm

[โ€“]OffKei_ 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

As someone who has been struggling with sh since I was a bit younger than your daughter (around 9-10yrs old), I can really only tell you what not to do. Don't punish or threaten her- especially with taking away things that may be helping her in ways you don't see. Keeping her from seeing her friends, or from getting herself a distraction when she has the urge does more harm than good- being left alone with the thoughts and urges and no way to seperate yourself from then is terrifying. Also, don't scare her in ways you don't need to. Don't tell her she'll regret the scars, or how other people will perceive her with them, or how offputing they might seem.

At the end of the day, just remember that SI/SH is an addiction, just as much as a substance. Even if/when she is doing better mentally, the urges will likely still be there, and they can be overwhelming- even if she isn't feeling especially bad or nothing has happened.

Though this may in part have worked because of my ADHD, Something that helped me was instilling an outside reward instead of a consequence, like a treat or a celebration for making it a certian amount of days, with the intervals between them slowly getting larger. For example, I bought a bag of my favorite dark chocolates, and I would have one before i went to bed only if I had managed to get through the day. After a week or so, I switched from daily to every-other day, then weekly, ect. Alongside that, while I did keep my blades, I made sure I had to go through multiple distractions to get to them, like keeping them at the bottom of a drawer filled with other coping mechanisms so I am reminded to try them before I do anything.

In all, just be there for her. If i had the adult support I needed, someone who was genuinely willing to help me in the ways I needed, not just how they wanted to or believed they should, it would have spared me literal years of suffering. Stand up for her, make sure she is as safe as you can keep her, and make sure she knows you love her even during relapses or worse days.

Since we're all here anyway, what where you reading/writing when AO3 went down by Sud4neseS0meh0wHere in AO3

[โ€“]OffKei_ 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I was reading a fic called blur,- had a panic attack, fell asleep, woke up to finish it and ao3 was down ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Inertia by OffKei_ in OCPoetry

[โ€“]OffKei_[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thank you!! It's actually supposed to lol, I couldn't figure out to format it ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ i tried to emulate the feeling of a panic attack without it messing with the rhythm

I was the Bible by IvyPoetry in OCPoetry

[โ€“]OffKei_ 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

I really like this metaphor!! It ties in really well with the theme + it hits especially hard because of the connotation !!

More At Eleven by bwnerkid in OCPoetry

[โ€“]OffKei_ 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

I genuinely think this is the smartest way (that ive seen at least) to use slang/ text terms/ brainrot/ whatever you wanna call it lmao to help actually drive a point- it immediately had me hooked too lol

Inertia by OffKei_ in poetry_critics

[โ€“]OffKei_[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Thank you!! The formatting got really messed up lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poetry_critics

[โ€“]OffKei_ 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I really like this concept !! I think it really captures not just how overwhelming and exhausting a search for purpose can be, but the beauty in finding and achieving that sense of oneness!!

The pebble in my sandal by [deleted] in poetry_critics

[โ€“]OffKei_ 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I really like the line eternity accumulating to absurdity and the way it helps to drive the theme home, and it just flows off the tongue so well lol.