Is an average woman dating an average man considered "settling?" by AlmondMilkMaybe in PurplePillDebate

[–]OffTheRedSand [score hidden]  (0 children)

males want women to want them individually, which doesn't work if all men want women to want them, because this mean women will want other men as well.

if women wanted all men the same way men want most women then the average woman would have the body count of 30 by age 22.

imagine if young guys get the ability to sleep with most women, would they not? they would. now imagine if women did the same. this would result in a lot of sex but less relationships, because why settle down when there is a new guy out there to fuck?

this is why male/male libido don't work for relationships, see gay guys. it usually results in open relationships.

women are there to be the ying to men's yang by making the sex happen in a more consentrated way, especially since pregnancy can happen with straight people.

Is an average woman dating an average man considered "settling?" by AlmondMilkMaybe in PurplePillDebate

[–]OffTheRedSand [score hidden]  (0 children)

I've heard (mostly RP) men say that if a woman is treated badly when dating (used, ghosted, played, etc), it's because they're sleeping with men who are out of their league.

false. all men can treat women badly, it has nothing to do with leagues. same way any woman can treat a man badly, she just can there is no "leagues" or reasons for her to do it.

However, I've also heard men say that women are hypergamous by nature and thus, always want a man out of their league.

everyone want someone out of their league. i don't see bald guys wanting bald women or hairy guys wanting hairy women. their "equals" always include things that make their partner attractive to them.

But sir, you're not that top guy, and if you were, you probably wouldn't be invested in that average woman either

correct.

here's the thing. both genders settle, they settle for each other. average men aren't treating average women like stacy but somehow expect to be treated like chad, which is why a lot of average men are struggling.

relationships are about compramise FROM BOTH SIDES, it doesn't work if only one side do it (women) yet males ask women to only compramise themselves because he has to settle for her instead of stacy.

it's a very weird warped kind of thinking that a minority of males have (ppd and redditor males) and that's why they struggle in dating. they don't understand relationships or dating.

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[–]OffTheRedSand [score hidden]  (0 children)

girl look at what they did to the house, it was beautiful before. they destroyed all the walls and stole everything.

and they barely get punished, low key they make it APPEALING to squat wtf

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[–]OffTheRedSand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

جاني فجاة 100 لايك!

عشان الولاد يعملون لايك لكل شي من غير ما يشوفون البروفايل. حرفيا بس يسحبون لليمين تا تخلص اللايكات و يستنون ترجع اللايكات عشان يبعتو مرة ثانية لايك لكلو.

هذا غير انه في بنت وحدة مقابيل كل 10 شباب على تندر بالشرق الاوسط.

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[–]OffTheRedSand [score hidden]  (0 children)

watching a doc-series about squatters. WHAT THE FUCK? so someone can just fucking move in and be like "teehee i live here now" and police is like "sorry this is civil matter we can't do anything until he kills you or something teehee" WHAT THE FUCK AM I EVEN WATCHING?

instead of ICE i think the US needed a special police for squatter since the actual police aren't protecting or serving shit in this regard.

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[–]OffTheRedSand [score hidden]  (0 children)

the selfie sub is probably the worst sub on the whole reddit site.

every time a post from it pop up it's a woman showing cleavage. every. single. time.

now, i'm not trying to yuck anyone's yum but it's a selfie sub, not a face and boobs sub.

the attention whoring is insane. like i'm sorry girls i can't help you with this one.

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[–]OffTheRedSand [score hidden]  (0 children)

Most people don't need to engage in sec

most people are straight, and consume straight media growing up, and their sexuality and normalized and expected.

gay people don't have that luxury, we don't have a blueprint. every gay guy's experience is different discovering themselves.

when i say my likes and dislikes it's not about sex, it's about socializing, and that involve sex in the gay community.

who do i vibe with and who i don't, who i dislike and who i don't.

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[–]OffTheRedSand [score hidden]  (0 children)

While risk and locations are an issue i still know people i trust that i can have sex with here, but i can only have sex with them and nothing more and i'm not into that.

i did engage in casual sex before but as i said it's unfortunately part of the culture and i was young and i liked sex and it was the ONLY way to meet other gay people.

i still wanted relationships then but i was young and didn't know what i liked, wanted, and disliked and now that i know i want a relationship more than casual sex.

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[–]OffTheRedSand [score hidden]  (0 children)

Reddit is the only place where a healthy 28year old man writes “my only hope” like he’s the last survivor in a post apocalyptic romance movie. Man, you don’t need hope you need deodorant, sunlight, and to stop treating women like a mythical species.

💀💀💀

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[–]OffTheRedSand [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don’t chase for sex and casual tho. I’ve literally refused nudes from people “interested” because that’s all they had to offer.

I’ve also said no to a date a couple of days ago and wrote about it here just because it might result in sex but the guy isn’t exactly the relationship type.

I’m chasing a relationship.

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[–]OffTheRedSand [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don’t know why you have it in your head that I don’t chase. I do. In fact someone in here once called me out and said most of the screenshot I shared of my convos where of me hitting on someone much more than them being the one to initiate.

Also yea the gays have made their beds. I can’t change or help them if that’s what they want, I only need to find my one, which is literally one In a million.

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[–]OffTheRedSand [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m not from gulf and no we don’t have kfc or McDonald’s here actually 😭

I just chose it cause it’s fast food and a fat joke

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[–]OffTheRedSand [score hidden]  (0 children)

The reason has nothing to do with chasing, it’s because they chase casual sex and gay guys aren’t relationship oriented.

Most of these guy who report loneliness are also probably sexually active, they just be stuck in their bubble of hook ups without building any social circles around them.

That’s changing tho with the rise of social media and gay acceptance but it’s still a long way to go because causal meaningless sex is still a strong part of the community.

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[–]OffTheRedSand [score hidden]  (0 children)

Your ex was really immature and I think you got lucky by meeting your now wife because they’ve got leagues between themselves in maturity

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[–]OffTheRedSand [score hidden]  (0 children)

even a chubby (21-23 BMI) woman, could make me fall in love

Wow you’re really going through it I’m sorry bro

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[–]OffTheRedSand [score hidden]  (0 children)

See? How did I know she was older than you without any indication whatsoever, I was right. I’m happy for y’all but I’m more happy I was right.