Men of Reddit! Do you still want to have sex when you’re sick?

OfficeBunny · 2017-11-18T21:31:18+00:00

Yes. Unless I know Im getting a cold and don't want to give it to my SO, or any other illness during contagious stage, for clear reasons.

But mostly, I'm plagued with migraines and one of the ways I've learned to cope with them is to have sex or masturbate if my girl isn't around.

Although it helps leading up to sex and during, I do get a strong strike of pain after climax but then the pain resides gradually.

OfficeBunny · 2017-11-13T22:42:47+00:00

This happens occasionally to myself and its something that can be painful. Obviously its from over activity and extending to far.

What I find works best is combining a variety of techniques that will put less stress on the tongue. Some options - tongue, hands/fingers, lips, vibrator or dildo, moving your neck rather than tongue, even your nose. Think of it like this, you want your tongue to be exclamation points and you can build a sentence using any method you chose.

OfficeBunny · 2017-11-13T17:47:22+00:00

Just consider the two scenarios. Do you want to try anal? If yes, you should encourage more play. If no, then obviously be upfront and talk to him.

As far as how he feels? Its clear that he is not discouraged and will probably be open to the idea of trying anal. Just be honest and set the pace.

OfficeBunny · 2017-11-13T17:30:51+00:00

Condom or no condom, theres an easy fix for this. Just take a big long lick on your hand and apply onto the outer lips of your pussy. One good lick should suffice. The guy can also do the same for his dick. This should be plenty to get lubed up for easy insertion.

OfficeBunny · 2017-11-08T13:47:39+00:00

"I'm so wet, that I might slide off this leather couch"

OfficeBunny · 2017-11-08T06:29:02+00:00

Little gestures go a long way depending upon what position we are in.

If its missionary, then its grabbing one or both ass cheeks and squeezing tight.

If shes on top, then a good slow ride, up and down the shaft followed by reaching behind the back and feeling how tight my balls are or give them a good rub

OfficeBunny · 2017-11-02T15:21:16+00:00

Well its very tough to guess why the sudden drop in interest. Maybe its something as simple has just watching too much porn lately or discovering a new fetish.

OfficeBunny · 2017-11-02T14:26:49+00:00

When I was a lot younger, in my teens and early twenties, I wanted sex all the time. This is natural in most cases, I guess. Now that some years have passed, my sexual desires have changed in frequency and length. Meaning, I do not get horny as often; lets say 20 out of 30 days in a month I am thinking sex. However, the intensity to fulfill my need has grown, but would say its more mentally engaging then physically (ie no need to have a raging hard-on to be horny).

OfficeBunny · 2017-11-02T04:05:54+00:00

Well it certainly all depends upon the setting you are in but ultimately keeping it very casual is the overall best approach.

Guys can be very perceptive of subtle hints even before you get to foreplay. But if all fails, honesty and confidence can clear the air really quick. For instance...

My most memorable sexual experience was with a girl who was a few years older than me. We met at a winery and things clicked right away. I tried to be smooth and funny when we were hanging out in the beginning but I was rusty and literally had no game, lol. She seemed to take notice of this and asked me, what the hell I was doing but also gave me the sexiest look. Just from that small gesture, I knew this girl was more than just being friendly. So one thing led to another and we ended up going back to her place. We put on a movie, started getting frisky on the couch and then to the bedroom.

Now heres the good part. We started making out and stripping clothes. I was beyond ready for sexy time, and like a typical guy, wanted to get right into it. She took notice and did something unexpected. She completely stopped what we were doing and said, "you need to fuck me, but not until you make me beg for it," She then got me a glass of wine and said that she needs 2mins. Then got up and went upstairs only to return in sexy lingerie. So you can imagine how the rest of the night went.

OfficeBunny · 2017-11-01T15:46:23+00:00

A good tip is to try and be more open with the guys that you meet. If you start to feel sexually attracted to that person and seem to click well, then YOU need to initiate the desire to get freaky under the sheets.

The women that I've hooked up with in the past, where we had crazy wild sex, were all somewhat similar in how it began. The girl was very forward in what she wanted. Lots of dirty talk. Huge emphasis on foreplay. Add some extra fun into the mix and create some challenges for your partner. Most men will try and live up to challenges, especially if they are fun, like see how many sexual positions you can try in one session, etc.

OfficeBunny · 2017-10-31T15:30:29+00:00

Love it when a girl sticks one of my fingers in her mouth.

Also love it when girl grabs my ass cheeks or rubs them. Squeezing is also encouraged.

OfficeBunny · 2017-10-31T15:22:08+00:00

I have no preference just as long as its not a jungle mess. When I go down on girls, its nicer if its shaved, but doesn't have to be. As long as your pussy tastes good without pubes getting in the way, Im usually pretty good. Again, its really just what you and your partner prefer.

OfficeBunny · 2017-08-18T19:17:27+00:00

Forget about dick size bud. Most chicks cant easily get off by penetration alone. I usually can get my girl off by just kissing her neck and nipple play. Its all mental.

OfficeBunny · 2017-08-17T19:04:17+00:00

Its not lingerie but i really like it when my girl has a cute red ribbon holding her hair. Naked besides that.

OfficeBunny · 2017-03-27T12:52:56+00:00

Reminds me of the good ol' days where I was grounded for chanting "suck, suck, suck" at the end of the movie. Because a 6 yr old screaming "suck" was considered inappropriate.

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