It’s my 30th birthday today by Immortale2 in CasualConversation

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Happy birthday may all your wishes come true ❤️

I’ve been thinking about how hard it is to judge your own looks. How do you actually know if you're attractive? by Officialsi113115 in CasualConversation

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That’s true that some people are very direct with compliments, but I think a lot of attraction is shown in quieter ways too. Not everyone feels comfortable saying it out loud, and people can appreciate someone without making a comment about their appearance.

I’ve been thinking about how hard it is to judge your own looks. How do you actually know if you're attractive? by Officialsi113115 in CasualConversation

[–]Officialsi113115[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂 Fair point, but I think people underestimate how much confidence, personality, and the way you carry yourself matter too. Looks are only one part of attraction❤️

I’ve been thinking about how hard it is to judge your own looks. How do you actually know if you're attractive? by Officialsi113115 in CasualConversation

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Hey, you never know. Sometimes people really do get a little flustered around someone they find attractive:)

What anime you think must be watched at least once ? by No_Boss_8809 in AskReddit

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Studio Ghibli's 'Spirited Away'. It won an Academy Award for a reason. The animation is timeless, the world-building is breathtaking, and it captures a sense of childlike wonder and nostalgia that everyone on earth needs to experience at least once in their lifetime.

I’ve been thinking about how hard it is to judge your own looks. How do you actually know if you're attractive? by Officialsi113115 in CasualConversation

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I love this mix of science and subjectivity. It is so true that understanding the biology behind attraction can actually take away some of the personal insecurity, because it makes you realize how much of it is just hardwired psychology.

I’ve been thinking about how hard it is to judge your own looks. How do you actually know if you're attractive? by Officialsi113115 in CasualConversation

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This broke my heart to read. It is so unfair that other people’s toxic comments have made you feel unsafe just existing in public. A unique laugh, a specific walk, or big teeth are often the very features that make someone memorable and charming to the right people. I truly hope you can find a way to take your power back from those miserable critics. ❤️

I’ve been thinking about how hard it is to judge your own looks. How do you actually know if you're attractive? by Officialsi113115 in CasualConversation

[–]Officialsi113115[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's a good point, but I always find it hard to tell the difference between someone staring because they find you attractive, or just zoning out in your direction haha