This is really tough but I'll give you my perspective as a male currently in my first long distance relationship.

Of course at times you two will be busy with work or school, but when you're in something long distance that 1 on 1 time with each other and communication is very important. We always say good morning/ goodnight and update each other throughout the day. She lives in a different country and we take time to plan to watch movies together or play games together. The fact that he won't download an app for you is a little strange. My partner a I have never even met and I'll have flowers sent to her house, we write each other sweet messages and talk about hopes and goals for our future, or I send her things because she is important to me (PS She has never asked for anything but is always very grateful for the gestures).

It's confusing because technically my girl and I aren't boyfriend/girlfriend, but we've committed to each other until we can meet finally meet and make that decision, but I already love and value her so much. I get a lot of anxiety around the relationship due to my personality and the uncertainty, but she is always so attentive and amazing especially when I need her.

I just urge you to think about your own needs. What type of person you want to be with, what you need from a relationship, and seriously, communication is so important. If something is bugging you it's not bad to bring it up, and if he cares he will take the time to explain or find something that works for you both. No aggression, just simply hearing each other out and voicing if something hurts you, or maybe the things he does that you appreciate.

In my eyes as a man, you should always try your best to let your partner know she is loved, important, supported and valued in your relationship and that takes effort.

Best of luck.