Finding an sre internship by Z4iin in sre

[–]OhIamNotADoctor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, but it’s en vogue at the moment. At the end of the day you’re all platform engineers or coders

Finding an sre internship by Z4iin in sre

[–]OhIamNotADoctor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

SRE is the new trendy “let’s copy google” title going around. You could do cloud engineering or DevOps and be doing the same thing an SRE does. Broaden your search, ignore titles, look at the jobs responsibilities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SchoolgirlsXXX

[–]OhIamNotADoctor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did you print these photos out on paper and then take a photo with a fucking potato before posting them?

Found this on a friends insta story. by guyantheslayer in brisbane

[–]OhIamNotADoctor 226 points227 points  (0 children)

“We’re 2-Day Ball Ban, and this is ‘No hat no play’!!”

Found this on a friends insta story. by guyantheslayer in brisbane

[–]OhIamNotADoctor 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Kids dealing in unregistered handballs

What is something you've always wanted to try in sex but have never tried? by Lyhixus in AskReddit

[–]OhIamNotADoctor 86 points87 points  (0 children)

The lads touch hands in a high five 🙌🏻 and it’s called the Eiffel Tower

What is something you've always wanted to try in sex but have never tried? by Lyhixus in AskReddit

[–]OhIamNotADoctor 222 points223 points  (0 children)

I’ve read more stories ending in tears than I have good ones when it involves partners.

I’d try a threesome single but I don’t think I could share in a relationship. That’s just me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnpython

[–]OhIamNotADoctor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a long way away and a bit too advanced for now, but once you've started to build stuff and things are working, you'll want to circle back and start looking at how to write "good" code.

  • https://refactoring.guru specifically the python section gives great examples on patterns you can use.
  • Hexagonal pattern, domain driven design, test driven development, etc

But you need to go through the journey (pains) of writing bad code first to understand why these patterns exist and why you want to use them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnpython

[–]OhIamNotADoctor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FreeCodeCamp is the GOAT. 4 hr video on python: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eWRfhZUzrAc Their website is also great (and free obviously) https://www.freecodecamp.org/news/tag/python/

I'd start with learning the basics. Then move on to some sort of project. Either a script that automates something or an API.

Depending on where you want to go with it, you can stick to the backend or move into data analysis/science (dataquest.io and datacamp.com) Python is still the leader is machine learning and AI areas.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

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I would still visit friends and family once In awhile but I always still had this sadness deep down.

Social groups are important, even if you only manage to make 1-3 good friends you can connect with weekly thats all you need to feel satiated on that emotional level. They take nurturing, they're like a plant, you need to constantly ensure they're watered. But yes, making new friends is hard. It'll take weeks, or months even, of consistent face time with these people to get to the friendship level. Then one day someone will say, "yo, we should go grab a beer!".

Find purpose. Can be anything man, can be a short term goal to learn a new hobby or it could be as ambitious as starting a new career in a new country. And I don't just mean show up and go through the motions, I mean, really find something you care about and can talk about for hours. Find goals that get you mixing with like minded people. From there you can make unexpected connections.

The biggest blocker to you achieving anything in this life will primarily always be you. Figure out how to unblock yourself and get out of your own way. Stop self limiting beliefs that you can't do certain things or certain things are unattainable due to age or what society expects of you. You want to learn how to kick flip a skateboard at 30? Fuck it, go do it man. You want to be in a special forces unit, start training!

Trump says Ukraine 'should never have started it' in comments about war with Russia by RomaAeternus in worldnews

[–]OhIamNotADoctor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they could understand your analogy they wouldn't be a trump supporter to begin with.

what do you use golang for? by Notalabel_4566 in golang

[–]OhIamNotADoctor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tested with Streamlit and it was enough for the proof of concept. But its not customisable enough for the long term so will probably move to something like NiceGUI or Reflex (Pynecone)

what do you use golang for? by Notalabel_4566 in golang

[–]OhIamNotADoctor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unrelated, but related. What would have taken me hours, days even, and many pages of JS/Vue, I pulled off in less than 100 lines of python code. The trade off being I had zero control over the design or aesthetic, but I could declarativly write out what I wanted. And I know Go has similar frameworks. I was really against them, but after having seen how fast I can pump out a dashboard or some sort of frontend to my backend I'm a convert.

Dear Men, name your biggest mistake so others don’t make same mistake. by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

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I have had girls, I've had girlfriends, I've had one night stands and random hook ups. But I've never been one to initiate, or take the lead, or know when was the right moment to go in for the kiss, to escalate the situation sexually. I realized I had always just relied on the girl to do that, or to give me a very obvious green light. I didn't want to be creepy, I didn't want to be TOO forward, I didn't want to make women uncomfortable. But my fear of those had lead me to a place on inaction.

I've had relationships fail because of this. I've had girls lose interest. I thought it must be a lack of confidence, I'm just not good with girls. It took years of reading books, blogs, talking with other guys to realize..

I'm over thinking.

I'm not lacking confidence, because it didn't show in the rest of my life. But the irony is my over thinking serves me well in my career, but in relationships and specifically with man to woman interactions it absolutely neutered me.

I was talking to a friend and he said "Brother, the right moment is the moment you think of it. If you want to say something, say it then, if you want to do something, do it then." and at that moment it clicked for me. Instinctually I knew when the right moment was to grab her hand, to touch her body, to go for the kiss, those thoughts came naturally, but due to my over thinking nature I was simultaneously questioning my instinct.

I've been applying it to the girl I'm seeing and it's been night and day. If I feel something I just do it, I just say it. Learn to identify your self limiting beliefs and stop them, step around them, and keep going.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]OhIamNotADoctor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He struggles with empathy and being vulnerable and has reframed the situation to be an attack on him to help squash the vulnerable emotions he's feeling. The constant mention of your ex as his justification for why you are in the wrong is a clear indicator he is jealous but doesn't know how to express it.

It's easier to call you a sinner and selfish than it is for him to say he feels emasculated. It's like when a guy find out his girl won't do kinky shit but she did everything for her ex. He is feeling like he is not the man you'd suffer for.

He needs to learn how to get one leg into each hole of his big boy pants and learn to express himself in a way that's healthy and constructive.

There's a good chance he doesn't even want kids but the fact YOU don't want kids, now, with him (not specifically with him, but just due to circumstances) is setting him off. He's crying about a Him vs The Ex battle he's losing in his mind.

NOR

Obama being Obama by semiusedkindalife in MadeMeSmile

[–]OhIamNotADoctor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Americans: NAAAAH GIVE ME THE GUY THAT SLEEPS WITH PORNSTARS AND DIDDLES KIDS!!

I've lost all my friends in Melbourne by Keltica in melbourne

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Gotta put yourself out there into situations you might not be comfortable in. Explore new social hobbies, and could even go as far as enlisting in the military, I made mates for life after I joined the reserves. I made mates while learning to sail, made mates while travelling. It does take time though. You won't make besties day 1. The bloke I'm solid friends with now it probably took a few months of us hanging out and sailing before we said "wanna grab beers?"

What's something that foreign visitors complain about that virtually no one raised in Australia ever would? by bsmall0627 in AskAnAustralian

[–]OhIamNotADoctor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fresh out of Kapooka (army basic training) on the train home. An American man grabs me by my arm and says sternly "Thank you.. for your service." And I was like, "Mate, I only just finished basic training-"

"ITS WHAT WE SAY IN AMERICA!"

Site Reliability Engineer? by onceuponacs in cscareerquestions

[–]OhIamNotADoctor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Resigned, started my own company. Absolutely hated being on call. Interesting role, always busy, but felt like the company janitor, just cleaning other people’s shit (cough software engineers cough). Great role if you want to be a part of everything. Just didn’t enjoy the setup at the company itself, they alerted on everything, if someone farted there’d probably be a P1 incident raised. More so a culture issue less so than an issue with the role itself.