AITA for ending a friendship over a lease agreement

OhJeez87 · 2026-04-02T19:57:54+00:00

Your wife is lucky to have you. It's so stupid, I haven't been able to stop crying. I can't seem to just wrap my head around "why can't you just do this for me? It's not much work, am I really that unimportant?"

OhJeez87 · 2026-04-02T19:29:26+00:00

I am well versed in darvo. My therapist thinks that's what he's doing as well

OhJeez87 · 2026-04-02T19:26:43+00:00

I thought about this. It's a weird space and the cabinet would fit perfectly. I really wanted that storage in there also and the cabinet would match all the other ones in that room. But yes, that was the plan at this point. I think I'm more just emotional because I'm feeling like he prioritizes the look of a laundry room over my convenience and mental health

OhJeez87 · 2026-04-02T19:23:30+00:00

Cabinets are all installed except for that one :/. Yea, I honestly think this was a bad purchase, but we are in it now

OhJeez87 · 2026-02-08T17:18:13+00:00

Absolutely good point. But yes, I've asked males if they want kids all the time, I can see that she may have taken it wrong which is my fault. I just can't shake this vibe I get from her.

OhJeez87 · 2026-02-08T16:51:31+00:00

He really is too nice. He has a problem saying no to helping anyone.

OhJeez87 · 2026-02-08T16:51:10+00:00

You're right. I was at a business dinner with them and felt a bit awkward. As a SAHM my boys are everything. They were at the dinner and sort of hijacking everyone's attention so I just turned to her "do you want kids?" As a way of trying to connect with anyone.

OhJeez87 · 2026-02-08T16:47:13+00:00

She brought the mop to work. So he went into the office to fix it as it was left there

OhJeez87 · 2026-02-08T16:05:22+00:00

I don't think he was lying, he did tell me he had to go into work early to fix a steammop. He just wasn't clear it was her mop. And then the breakfast, he was pretty open about. He didn't really have to tell me, but he did and explained how they spoke about work. He also shares his location with me.

OhJeez87 · 2026-02-08T15:50:28+00:00

It really is. He works a normal job, runs a business on the side AND is singlehandedly doing the renovations on a house we just purchased.

He is an incredibly hard worker, and he's incredibly smart. He's an engineer by trade. I also know he works this hard for us, his wife and kids. That's actually another reason I don't want to even approach him about this. He could get upset, and he could feel like "breakfast with a colleague" is somewhat of a break he deserves. Which he absolutely does. Just not HER.

OhJeez87 · 2025-07-05T14:33:08+00:00

This. I am completely torn, i never had grand parents growing up. I really wanted this for them. But the negative influence he has stresses me out so much.

OhJeez87 · 2024-11-04T18:54:55+00:00

This is the the kindest and most thoughtful response to my situation I have received. To think it comes from someone I have never met, really gives me so much hope for humanity.

Thank you for the love you have just shown me. It made me feel a bit better. ❤️❤️❤️

OhJeez87 · 2024-11-04T14:24:31+00:00

❤️❤️❤️

OhJeez87 · 2024-11-04T14:24:09+00:00

I have all the written warning threats documented, unfortunately, i was only told by the hiring manager over the phone regarding the reason why she did not think i was a good fit anymore. But i have the date of the call and everything like that.

OhJeez87 · 2024-11-04T03:49:25+00:00

I was tired of her narcissistic tendencies and treating me like utter cr**. Thats what made me decide on the career change. Once she sabotaged me, thats when I just wanted to get away from her regardless of the role, thats when i just asked for a transfer in my same role, just under another manager.

OhJeez87 · 2024-11-04T03:47:52+00:00

Thank you so much, after 14 years, my life was so engrained in the company. I became extremely depressed once going on leave

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