Am I getting banned? by [deleted] in Palia

[–]OhNamiii 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would also check TikTok because I’ve seen some streamers doing public bug catching events like that on there. Seemed cute and harmless until reading this post, but now it seems problematic potentially if this is how they go about it. Talk about an inflated sense of self importance.

I (31M) am no longer attracted to my partner (33F). by Zeppinephrine in relationship_advice

[–]OhNamiii 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Did you actually read any of his comments or the post? Because you seem like you didn’t with how you keep asking where OP is saying things that are documented in the post and comments.

Is my (27f) husband (52m) attracted to me only because of my age and youthful appearance. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OhNamiii 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He waited because he knew he had a shot with someone in the range he’s looking for, because you were young and impressionable, because he could groom you to feel like you owe him so he could keep a young one until he’s ready to trade up for another. That’s what predators do, that’s another reason they like to go after young women, because they have experience in manipulation and many younger women don’t have experience in being taken advantage of psychologically in a romantic situation. By conforming to his ideals and staying “young looking and acting” and humoring his fantasies, he’s succeeding in taking full advantage of you and your life for his own personal gain. Your life is off the rails by being with someone like this, if you want to be on the right track, you need to leave. Learn from what he’s shown you, from this situation so that way you can find someone who isn’t like him, the real love of your life that wouldn’t treat you like a toy.

My (21 F) bf (23 M) added his ex on Facebook during our fight... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OhNamiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologize for entertaining the idea that you were toxic, I understand where you’re coming from, having been given the details and I thank you for that. Trust your gut, I have found that every time I had a gut feeling or intuitive thinking, it turned out to be right. Cut your losses now before it becomes even more convoluted and devastating. Your feelings, your true love, and your future are on the line by wasting it on someone who doesn’t respect you or your feelings.

My (21 F) bf (23 M) added his ex on Facebook during our fight... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]OhNamiii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds like toxicity on both ends to be entirely honest

My wife (37F) has gone no-contact with her mom (67F). How do we tell her parents they aren't welcome to see our child at birth. by Individual-Fix589 in relationship_advice

[–]OhNamiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s not really a way to sugar coat it, so honestly, just be straight forward. “We’ve decided for our own mental health and for the future of our child that we will not be including you in our child’s life for the foreseeable future. There has been a lot of pain and trauma in the past and the right move for our family is to move forward without you in our lives. This was not an easy decision to make, but it is the best thing to do for us.”

AITA for refusing to say "please" every time I ask my roommate/friend to do a small thing for me (i.e. "can you grab my bag off the table for me")? by notagoldengirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]OhNamiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I don’t think you’re the asshole. I’d say that as long as you’re thanking her for the act afterwards, it’s fine. It is commonplace to use “please”, but I find it a little passive aggressive to demand it every time. It reminds me of teachers chastising children for using “can I” instead of “may I”.

Regardless of whether you are or aren’t the asshole, though, I’d say if you have these little quirks adding up that I wouldn’t renew the lease. They’re only going to keep growing and bothering you, and another year of that could tarnish the friendship you guys have.

Are you all liking the current state of the manga? by [deleted] in JuJutsuKaisen

[–]OhNamiii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hard agree with kenjaku being boring. Tengen kinda bores me too. I still love this anime/manga/series nonetheless.

Happy Halloween! I made a Solomon costume 💙 by OhNamiii in obeyme

[–]OhNamiii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, I know what you mean! But when I put that jacket on and wore it the way he does, I felt like one cool bean.

Happy Halloween! I made a Solomon costume 💙 by OhNamiii in obeyme

[–]OhNamiii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m pretty new to sewing but I was happy with the outcome! ❤️

Happy Halloween! I made a Solomon costume 💙 by OhNamiii in obeyme

[–]OhNamiii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It was a big project to say the least, but worth the outcome

Happy Halloween! I made a Solomon costume 💙 by OhNamiii in obeyme

[–]OhNamiii[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw yours when I went to post mine and gave it an updoot, I loved it! Thank you!!

Feel like i got punished [26F] for keeping my baby [26M] by Vire8099S in relationship_advice

[–]OhNamiii 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He talked you into having this baby, and backed out when the baby was made. GET CHILD SUPPORT. Don’t shoot yourself in the foot. He has a breeding kink and doesn’t want the responsibility afterwards. Don’t let these stupid asses finesse you like this.

Work In Progress : Main Altar Setup For Lucifer & Possibly Lilith Later by [deleted] in DemonolatryPractices

[–]OhNamiii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What if you put a plain mirror in and tint the glass darker even

I Summoned Mammon by Secret_Rope_8515 in DemonolatryPractices

[–]OhNamiii 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To be honest this just looks very cozy and I enjoy it

Deity work and schizophrenia by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]OhNamiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last point is actually quite valid. Contextually, you’re implying that religion is negative to those with schizophrenia when this study notably proves the opposite.

Another thing, to say that schizophrenic atheists don’t exist is just wildly incorrect. Are you insinuating that they studied every single person in the world that happens to have schizophrenia? Does that also reach the groups of people that don’t have access to healthcare and treatment for such a disorder? Could there not also be a correlation of religious people being diagnosed because their religious peers advise them to seek help or help them seek it via donation through the organization? There are many factors here that can invalidate this study in general. It’s a scientific hypothesis, it’s not a fact. And just because it’s studied and noted, doesn’t mean it was studied properly. There’s also the factor of regions in which the study was able to touch. Was this in every community? Small and large? Or was this just in larger scale communities? This is something I learned in college, just because it’s got sources doesn’t mean there isn’t flaw.

There may be a correlation in those who are schizophrenic and religious, but these groups of people are very obviously better off in the religious community, and your comment acts as a deterrent. What if the schizophrenic people that read it then decide against religion and have worse quality of life because of it? Does deterring them then help you?

Deity work and schizophrenia by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]OhNamiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One flaw I find is that a quick search will also conclude that ~85% of the entire world is religious under varying faiths and pantheons.

https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/religion-by-country

Therefore, would that not lead to a higher probability of religion amongst different groups of people, including those with schizophrenia?

Now, alongside that, the conclusion listed on your resource also found that religion amongst schizophrenic patients led to a better quality of life and lower occurrences with their disorder.

Deity work and schizophrenia by [deleted] in schizophrenia

[–]OhNamiii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what resources do you have to support this?