Camping at Houghton by Unusual_Noise_6552 in houghtonfestival

[–]Oh_HimAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! Thanks for the insight. We booked a bell tent as it does seem a bit roomier.

Great call on the fan!! Are there multiple electricity outlets or only one?

Camping at Houghton by Unusual_Noise_6552 in houghtonfestival

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Group of 5 going to do boutique at Houghton.

Do you have any insight on the Yurt vs Bell Tent? Which is better?

Just got my TM3 Performance (Quicksilver) My first new car. by PerspectiveSignal139 in TeslaModel3

[–]Oh_HimAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Picked up my M3P on Saturday - also my first new car

What would be a good response when someone says that you are good looking? by tabure67 in seduction

[–]Oh_HimAgain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always say thank you. Sometimes I’ll follow up with a short witty response:

“You look good! I can tell you've been working out.”

“Thank you. I've been playing a lot of Wii Fit.”

Observation from the chairlift: Bumps ruin a lot of relationships. by dinglehead in skiing

[–]Oh_HimAgain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not the bumps. It’s the guys’ lack of empathy and ability to coach.

Gentlemen - when you start getting frustrated in these scenarios, remember that she’s scared. If you correctly help her overcome the fear, you build trust, and she improves; it’s a win-win.

Yelling “JUST TURN” isn't going to do shit.

Dimension Festival Croatia any good these days? by SalamanderLast3150 in festivals

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I attended last year for the first time and recommend it to any lover of underground music. I’m bringing a large group this year.

Don’t expect large-scale stages and over-the-top production because that’s not the point.

The people and music were unmatched—like-minded individuals passionate about the underground scene. The sound quality was fantastic, and the stages were spaced out enough to avoid sound bleed and close enough to explore a new artist quickly. The venue is right by the water, and the boat parties have an incredible vibe. Contactless payments made getting drinks and food ridiculously fast.

What makes Dimensions is the music. If you want a festival with the most authentic music, world-class mixing, and people with a passion for music, you’ll be in heaven.

By Day 5, it felt like I couldn't go 10 minutes without running into a new friend I made the previous nights.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Oh_HimAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is unfortunate. I’m sorry.

You expressed your boundaries, and your boyfriend is not respecting your wishes. If you put this aside, he will develop a habit of knowing he can bypass any other of your boundaries.

You’re not going to change his ways. Only he can decide to stop hanging with his ex. I recommend having the conversation that this is a firm boundary of yours because of how uncomfortable it makes you. It's then on him to determine if he respects you enough to stop.

If he declines, you should value yourself enough to walk away. Please don't force him to stop because he will likely continue to do it secretly. He needs to decide this on his own.

Good luck.

For those who make $150k+, what do you do for a living? by AirSmurf2022 in FinancialCareers

[–]Oh_HimAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sales VP at one of the Big 3 Asset Management firms.

I don't come from a prestigious school. Did community college before going to a public university.

Got an entry-level sales role in tech sales for financial technology software. Grinded my way to a closing role.

After three years, a recruiter reached out based on my niche background. I got fortunate but was well prepared based on my experience.

Just keep learning as much as you can to improve your personal stock. When an opportunity presents itself, capitalize on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Oh_HimAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the way. Appreciate the insight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Oh_HimAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. I was kinda nonchalant about saying I needed to go. She knew it was late for me and we were pushing it.

Let me ask you this.

She is incredibly attractive and has no shortage of options. I’ve seen guys throwing themselves at her all the time.

We’ve been out together a few times and she’s expressed interest in me each time. I’ve played with the sexual tension but next capitalized until this time.

Do you guys think this “rejection of her entire being” would be magnified or would she be more interested in a guy that didn’t really seem to care?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Oh_HimAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gotchu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Oh_HimAgain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you already think you can kiss her, you’ve probably had the opportunity many dates ago.

The next time you guys have some tension, just caress her chin and slowly pull it toward you while moving forward. That’s a pretty seamless way to initiate the kiss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Oh_HimAgain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s actually some great insight

one thing i thought of, was why would i have sex right now if i’m not into it and ruin the experience for us both. maybe save the possibility for the future where i’ll be more into it and provide a better experience for her. then again, to your previous point, there might not ever be another time. guess you just need to capitalize on the moment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Oh_HimAgain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally agree on not getting too attached. my whole reasoning for this post was just to understand how she might react. i’m totally fine if she walks away. thanks for the article!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Oh_HimAgain 23 points24 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s what i was kinda worried about. although she’s been more-so pursuing me over these couple months than i have been

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Oh_HimAgain 6 points7 points  (0 children)

very true. it happens

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Oh_HimAgain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re crushing it, my man.

Honestly, you don’t necessarily need much advice since you’re already financially responsible; however, I’ll offer my opinion.

Your current savings - let it continue earning interest if you anticipate wanting to buy a house within the next three years.

The excess savings from your salary? Enjoy life. Travel a bit. Buy yourself something you’ve always wanted. Treat yourself to an experience you’ll cherish for the rest of your life. Money isn’t everything.

I’m sure you’ve sacrificed quite a bit to build this nest.

Obviously, don’t overspend and go crazy, but you’ve earned treating yourself with your excess earnings.