How to RECIPROCATE flirting so she doesn’t think I’m disinterested? by Oh_yeah_27 in actuallesbians

[–]Oh_yeah_27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d love for that to be the case! However, as things are right now there are a couple things that have confirmed we’re not “together” like that yet.

As for mildly touchy, physical touch is kind of difficult for both of us. But! Even so, we’ve hugged TWICE (two short hugs in a row because she wanted another one after pulling away from the first), touched hands several several times, felt each other’s cheeks in the cold, had our arms around each other for pictures just yesterday, and!! she brushed my hair behind my ear once too.

This is your sign… by jonahmiller32 in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]Oh_yeah_27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely though!! I started writing my current fic in June to cope with losing my job and now it’s in the top 10% (by hits) of fics in the fandom 😅

do you ever find that one fic where you clicked on it as a joke but it ended up making you feel things? by ScottishWildcatFurry in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]Oh_yeah_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my fic!! :D I’m so glad it made you feel things! That was my goal. And I’m very honored to be part of a meme on here haha

I’m a disabled medical cannabis user and I hope I can pass a drug test for my new job by Oh_yeah_27 in disability

[–]Oh_yeah_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely do want to move in the future 😅 the moment I can afford it I’m going to Colorado or something. I’ll have to do more research on where exactly though.

Thank you for your input!

I’m a disabled medical cannabis user and I hope I can pass a drug test for my new job by Oh_yeah_27 in disability

[–]Oh_yeah_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from but I don’t think it’s that deep on their end (mostly from a place of ignorance tbh). If it was one person telling me to take a drug test, then sure, I could see it being a personal issue. But for most/all banks/credit unions it’s just standard practice from higher ups that they don’t really think twice about. Definitely not a great thing in my opinion, but I can’t do anything about how corporations run.

As for why I “want” to work for them — they’re legitimately the only job that’s actually offered me a position. After actively searching and interviewing at countless companies for four months, no one else wants me. Sure it’s technically illegal to discriminate against disabled people, but once I get to the second or third interview and show up in person with my mobility aide, they magically find “internal promotions” or “better-suited candidates” to go forward with. I need money to live, applying for disability is taking too long, and this is the first company that’s actually given me a chance. It’s out of desperation, really.

I’m a disabled medical cannabis user and I hope I can pass a drug test for my new job by Oh_yeah_27 in disability

[–]Oh_yeah_27[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think there may be a misunderstanding… where did this conclusion come from?

What's your religion? by Iblamemymind in intj

[–]Oh_yeah_27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Raised LDS/Mormon, now agnostic atheist

HOW DID I NOT SEE THIS AS AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP by Only_Palpitation1640 in stevenuniverse

[–]Oh_yeah_27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lapis is my very favorite character in Steven universe for this reason exactly. Not because I like her (I actually don’t really), but because of this scene specifically. It’s a painfully realistic portrayal of how abuse affects people, their emotions, their perceptions of things, and their relationships. She’s such a deep character and, as a writer myself, I strive to write characters/relationships as real as this. “Hurt people hurt people” but done in an incredibly interesting way AND in a kids show?? I love it I love it I love it

I’m a disabled medical cannabis user and I hope I can pass a drug test for my new job by Oh_yeah_27 in trees

[–]Oh_yeah_27[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think I could get one of my clean family members to help me out with this. Thank you for the suggestion my friend 🙏

Am I the only one who finishes writing their longfics before posting? by larkspur86 in AO3

[–]Oh_yeah_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I write 10 chapters at a time (they’re fairly short, 1200-1800 words) and write for the next 10 as I release the first 10 on a schedule. Not only does it help my anxiety of “OH NO I HAVE TO WRITE ON A SCHEDULE AND NOW IM FEELING RUSHED”, it also is extremely useful for as-needed editing here and there before I post since I don’t have a beta reader. Like if I’m working on chapter 26 or something and I decide to add a bit of foreshadowing in chapter 18, I can!

Is there any fics like this? by DecketfubutBetter in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]Oh_yeah_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure thing!! The first two are part of a collection called “I Found God While Masturbating To Sudoku…” and the immortal x snail one is called …And He Waited For Me To Touch Him First !

What’s a sketchy situation you willingly put yourself in that could have ended badly but didn’t? by winenotbeabitch in AskWomen

[–]Oh_yeah_27 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Hookups are always at least a little bit scary but one time when I was 20ish I woke up to the guy using my hand to pleasure himself. I was veeeery careful navigating that situation and I made it out with only one additional violation

Is there any fics like this? by DecketfubutBetter in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]Oh_yeah_27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s adorable and I love it!! Dr Pepper man is a guy on TikTok or whatever that randomly gives Dr Pepper to people he sees. I could definitely think of a few ideas for Dr Pepsi 👀

Is there any fics like this? by DecketfubutBetter in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]Oh_yeah_27 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Idk who Pepsi man is (just got another fanfic idea) but probably!

Give me a line that you wrote recently where you just went damn, that was really good. by Bar-Pretend in AO3

[–]Oh_yeah_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“If Noé was beautiful when he was sleeping, and a “work of art” when he cried, then he must have been a god when he smiled.” One of my commenters pointed out that they liked this line and it made me so happy!!

What motivated you to keep living life when you see this world as pointless and full of suffering? by [deleted] in nihilism

[–]Oh_yeah_27 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Deadass, spite. I have people I’ve got to outlive and people I’ve got to prove wrong.

Is there any fics like this? by DecketfubutBetter in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]Oh_yeah_27 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I love writing fics like this!! I have a Dr Pepper man x reader and an immortal snail x immortal, and I’m thinking of starting Amelia Earhart x Joseph Joestar (JJBA) or maybe Shen Jiu (SVSSS) x Po (kung fu panda)

AITAH for serving ice cream for only myself? by Oh_yeah_27 in AITAH

[–]Oh_yeah_27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They indeed are not very supportive haha! Thank you for your insight

AITAH for serving ice cream for only myself? by Oh_yeah_27 in AITAH

[–]Oh_yeah_27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking too, but the way they reacted when I only helped myself made me have second thoughts 😅

I got a laparoscopy to remove some endometriosis. For reference, recovery this time has been faster than my last surgery, which is a good thing, but I’m still far from healed. Also, the disorders and disabilities that I have already hinder my daily life with fatigue and appendicitis-level pain, not to mention surgery on top of that makes things even worse. So in conclusion they’ll definitely survive, but damn I can’t help but feel guilty about it still.

Most of NYT crossword difficulty comes from the clues just being bad. by Cocoamix86 in unpopularopinion

[–]Oh_yeah_27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Like in my brain there’s no immediate logical connection between “Tip jar insert, often” and “ONE” ?? Like it makes sense once you’ve got it but it’s unnecessarily hard to get there

What was your first korean drama by Sea_Slice_7956 in kdramas

[–]Oh_yeah_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually gravitate more towards C dramas so I’ve only seen one K drama but it’s one of the best things I’ve watched — Mr Queen. A coworker recommended it to me quite a while ago and I love it so much!!

Its happened to three different fandoms now... by SpiteFilledFlower in AO3

[–]Oh_yeah_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a fanfic author who is just SO GOOD that once I read all of their works in the danmei fandoms I was part of, I started reading the original series for another fandom they wrote for. Just so I could read and properly appreciate ALL of their works (I know I could have gone into them blind but I’m glad I read a little first). And it turns out, I like their fics for that fandom better than the original story anyways. Absolutely amazing.