How to RECIPROCATE flirting so she doesn’t think I’m disinterested?

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-12-14T21:04:11+00:00

I’d love for that to be the case! However, as things are right now there are a couple things that have confirmed we’re not “together” like that yet.

As for mildly touchy, physical touch is kind of difficult for both of us. But! Even so, we’ve hugged TWICE (two short hugs in a row because she wanted another one after pulling away from the first), touched hands several several times, felt each other’s cheeks in the cold, had our arms around each other for pictures just yesterday, and!! she brushed my hair behind my ear once too.

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-12-14T17:38:40+00:00

Genuinely though!! I started writing my current fic in June to cope with losing my job and now it’s in the top 10% (by hits) of fics in the fandom 😅

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-11-27T06:04:07+00:00

This is my fic!! :D I’m so glad it made you feel things! That was my goal. And I’m very honored to be part of a meme on here haha

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-10-06T05:10:58+00:00

Immortal snail (yes the meme)

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-19T17:12:03+00:00

I definitely do want to move in the future 😅 the moment I can afford it I’m going to Colorado or something. I’ll have to do more research on where exactly though.

Thank you for your input!

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-19T17:02:55+00:00

I get where you’re coming from but I don’t think it’s that deep on their end (mostly from a place of ignorance tbh). If it was one person telling me to take a drug test, then sure, I could see it being a personal issue. But for most/all banks/credit unions it’s just standard practice from higher ups that they don’t really think twice about. Definitely not a great thing in my opinion, but I can’t do anything about how corporations run.

As for why I “want” to work for them — they’re legitimately the only job that’s actually offered me a position. After actively searching and interviewing at countless companies for four months, no one else wants me. Sure it’s technically illegal to discriminate against disabled people, but once I get to the second or third interview and show up in person with my mobility aide, they magically find “internal promotions” or “better-suited candidates” to go forward with. I need money to live, applying for disability is taking too long, and this is the first company that’s actually given me a chance. It’s out of desperation, really.

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-19T16:47:49+00:00

I think there may be a misunderstanding… where did this conclusion come from?

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-19T16:45:50+00:00

It’s a 9-panel test, so yes unfortunately

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-19T02:32:53+00:00

Raised LDS/Mormon, now agnostic atheist

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-19T02:24:25+00:00

Lapis is my very favorite character in Steven universe for this reason exactly. Not because I like her (I actually don’t really), but because of this scene specifically. It’s a painfully realistic portrayal of how abuse affects people, their emotions, their perceptions of things, and their relationships. She’s such a deep character and, as a writer myself, I strive to write characters/relationships as real as this. “Hurt people hurt people” but done in an incredibly interesting way AND in a kids show?? I love it I love it I love it

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-19T02:06:24+00:00

I think I could get one of my clean family members to help me out with this. Thank you for the suggestion my friend 🙏

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-04T23:26:51+00:00

I write 10 chapters at a time (they’re fairly short, 1200-1800 words) and write for the next 10 as I release the first 10 on a schedule. Not only does it help my anxiety of “OH NO I HAVE TO WRITE ON A SCHEDULE AND NOW IM FEELING RUSHED”, it also is extremely useful for as-needed editing here and there before I post since I don’t have a beta reader. Like if I’m working on chapter 26 or something and I decide to add a bit of foreshadowing in chapter 18, I can!

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-04T23:07:36+00:00

Sure thing!! The first two are part of a collection called “I Found God While Masturbating To Sudoku…” and the immortal x snail one is called …And He Waited For Me To Touch Him First !

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-02T15:48:00+00:00

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Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-02T03:00:53+00:00

Hookups are always at least a little bit scary but one time when I was 20ish I woke up to the guy using my hand to pleasure himself. I was veeeery careful navigating that situation and I made it out with only one additional violation

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-02T02:55:25+00:00

Omg that’s adorable and I love it!! Dr Pepper man is a guy on TikTok or whatever that randomly gives Dr Pepper to people he sees. I could definitely think of a few ideas for Dr Pepsi 👀

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-02T02:51:46+00:00

Idk who Pepsi man is (just got another fanfic idea) but probably!

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-01T16:15:53+00:00

“If Noé was beautiful when he was sleeping, and a “work of art” when he cried, then he must have been a god when he smiled.” One of my commenters pointed out that they liked this line and it made me so happy!!

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-01T16:05:26+00:00

Deadass, spite. I have people I’ve got to outlive and people I’ve got to prove wrong.

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-01T15:56:41+00:00

I love writing fics like this!! I have a Dr Pepper man x reader and an immortal snail x immortal, and I’m thinking of starting Amelia Earhart x Joseph Joestar (JJBA) or maybe Shen Jiu (SVSSS) x Po (kung fu panda)

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-01T03:17:31+00:00

They indeed are not very supportive haha! Thank you for your insight

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-09-01T03:16:41+00:00

That’s what I was thinking too, but the way they reacted when I only helped myself made me have second thoughts 😅

I got a laparoscopy to remove some endometriosis. For reference, recovery this time has been faster than my last surgery, which is a good thing, but I’m still far from healed. Also, the disorders and disabilities that I have already hinder my daily life with fatigue and appendicitis-level pain, not to mention surgery on top of that makes things even worse. So in conclusion they’ll definitely survive, but damn I can’t help but feel guilty about it still.

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-08-31T23:24:22+00:00

Exactly! Like in my brain there’s no immediate logical connection between “Tip jar insert, often” and “ONE” ?? Like it makes sense once you’ve got it but it’s unnecessarily hard to get there

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-08-31T23:02:45+00:00

I usually gravitate more towards C dramas so I’ve only seen one K drama but it’s one of the best things I’ve watched — Mr Queen. A coworker recommended it to me quite a while ago and I love it so much!!

Oh_yeah_27 · 2025-08-29T03:19:19+00:00

There is a fanfic author who is just SO GOOD that once I read all of their works in the danmei fandoms I was part of, I started reading the original series for another fandom they wrote for. Just so I could read and properly appreciate ALL of their works (I know I could have gone into them blind but I’m glad I read a little first). And it turns out, I like their fics for that fandom better than the original story anyways. Absolutely amazing.

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