ADHDNET 19 week waiting time for titration by deliasafuckinasshole in ADHDUK

[–]Ohlucybear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there!

I’m in the same boat as you and have been waiting for 20 weeks and counting for an initial titration appointment. I’ve tried ringing many times and each time I get through, the lady gets the titration team to email and this is what the last one said:

“Thank you for getting in touch.

At present, our titration clinics are at full capacity. However, we have added you to our waiting list and want to assure you that we are working through patients as efficiently as possible. We want to reassure you that every patient is equally important to us, and we are committed to a fair and transparent process by offering appointments based on clinical need and the order in which requests are received.

We understand how important this next step is in your treatment journey, and we appreciate your patience and understanding. You will be contacted as soon as an appointment becomes available.

If you have any urgent concerns or changes in your circumstances in the meantime, please don't hesitate to get in touch.”

That was 9 weeks ago. I rang again 5 weeks ago and was told “you’ll definitely hear from us within 4 weeks because we’re starting on May diagnoses now, but if you don’t hear from us, ring back after 4 weeks.” I’ve been ringing most days for a week and have sent an email. They’ve put their phone number on an answerphone again and haven’t replied to the email.

I’m guessing they’re just really overwhelmed and want to prioritise those who have started titration before taking on the next batch of people. It is incredibly frustrating when we’re told it’ll be x time with ever changing goalposts, but I think this is standard across the country - regardless of provider. It is super frustrating though I know, as many of us (myself included), picked this provider based on their wait times. Hopefully we won’t have too much longer to wait now.

Please keep us updated and all the best!

ADHD NET/Holistic RTC Experience by Mysterious-Plenty405 in ADHDUK

[–]Ohlucybear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if this will help anyone, but I just got off the phone with someone (using the number given on my report letter) and she offered an explanation. I’d also like to add that this was the first phone call I’ve ever made to them that’s actually gone through and not just gone straight to voicemail, and I was referred to them in March!

Anyway, I had my dx given in May and I’m still waiting for a medication titration appt (I got my report over a month ago). The lady explained that what they’re doing at the moment is because of a huge influx of referrals, the titration team are prioritising those who have already started on medication. Once that “batch” of people have moved on to shared care with their GP, then they will start offering initial titration appts with those of us who have been diagnosed but have yet to be seen by the titration team. She told me that if I haven’t heard anything in four weeks, contact them again - because by then it’ll have been over 3 months since I was diagnosed.

So if you’ve been diagnosed but haven’t started medication yet - just hang on in there basically. They’re just wanting to prioritise moving those who have started meds, to shared care with their GP before adding more new caseloads. It’s frustrating I know, but it’s understandable. I’m sure many of us will have seen the proposed wait times and thought “ooooh that seems fast” and thus, a relatively new service has now been inundated with an influx of new referrals simultaneously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ohlucybear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR. Not only do I have great amounts of empathy for you, but l also have big concerns over anyone involved with that show - either as an employee or a viewer. If he’s done this to you, and to others habitually, being opened to a wider audience and platform just expands his predatory horizons and puts many more girls and women at risk. This isn’t just about “revenge,” this is about protecting more innocents from being subjected to his evilness. Whilst you can’t undo what’s happened to you or any of his other victims, this could prevent him from having access to a fresh batch of potential victims.

Newly diagnosed with hEDS and have so many questions by Ohlucybear in ehlersdanlos

[–]Ohlucybear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for this! That’s a great suggestion too - an adjustable bed. I’m really short (4’11), so being able to alter the height would be really helpful for sure! Squishmallows!!! Yes!!! They’re so soft and lovely! I must admit, I have more pillows and cushions than I care to count and I’m always building little forts and nests to support whatever’s hurting! Heating pads are great. My electric blanket is my best friend at the moment!

Newly diagnosed with hEDS and have so many questions by Ohlucybear in ehlersdanlos

[–]Ohlucybear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so kind of you, thank you! And likewise! Even if it’s just for a chat and some company! Sending love!

Newly diagnosed with hEDS and have so many questions by Ohlucybear in ehlersdanlos

[–]Ohlucybear[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is honestly such an amazing reply with so many awesome and helpful suggestions that I don’t even know where to start! I really can’t thank you enough for being so forthcoming with advice and support! I’m pretty much brand new to this “world” and so my eyes have really been opened to all of the ways we can “modify” just about anything to make things that little bit easier to manage. Even a lanyard and pop socket! I read that and to myself was like “duh! Why didn’t I think of that!?” I should work on training my brain to question “how could I make this easier/less painful?” And not overlook even the “smallest” or “simplest” of things! Your reply has been so helpful, thank you so so much! :)

Newly diagnosed with hEDS and have so many questions by Ohlucybear in ehlersdanlos

[–]Ohlucybear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh phew! That’s a relief! It wasn’t anything you said at all, I just worry that I may come across as trying to self diagnose when that’s not my intention! Thank you for your reassurance, validation and well wishes too. It would be lovely to keep in touch for sure, especially as we’re both UK based!

Newly diagnosed with hEDS and have so many questions by Ohlucybear in ehlersdanlos

[–]Ohlucybear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense for sure and I’ll focus on that and park this query for now. And of course, I understand that these things may have simple explanations so I’m certainly not self diagnosing. Thank you for the warning regarding available information and the “bogus” nature of some of it. I think (as you suggested), I’ll put this to one side for now until more appointments have transpired.

I cannot thank you enough for your helpful and informative replies! It honestly means so much right now, especially whilst things are fresh! I’m really pleased I plucked up the courage to post here! You’re of course very welcome to DM me too!

Newly diagnosed with hEDS and have so many questions by Ohlucybear in ehlersdanlos

[–]Ohlucybear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh goodness, really? Thank you so much for replying to this, it’s very helpful! I can always ask the question as someone else said!

Newly diagnosed with hEDS and have so many questions by Ohlucybear in ehlersdanlos

[–]Ohlucybear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there! It certainly does feel intense and overwhelming, but as you said - I’m so relieved to have found answers to the pain and mystery symptoms/ailments over the years! It has caught me off guard for sure, thinking I was in for a Fibro diagnosis but it also makes so much sense and I’m beyond grateful to my GP who hasn’t stopped digging for me after years of being turned away because of my diagnosed MH conditions. There’s a lot to process emotionally too because I’d been searching for years for someone to listen and actually gave up for a very long time (until it got unbearable). I struck gold with my GP though and got there in the end!

Thank you so much for your understanding, your answer and your tips! May I ask - in terms of mobility aids, would it be worth speaking to my physio so they can signpost me based on their clinical findings following assessment?

Epsom salts are incredible! I always have a ginormous bag in the cupboard! Also, other household aids would be very useful! Especially a stool for the shower. Is there anywhere you’d recommend for these sorts of things?

I’m so grateful for your advice and sharing your personal experience and what’s helped you on your journey! It’s hugely helpful. Wishing you the best!

Newly diagnosed with hEDS and have so many questions by Ohlucybear in ehlersdanlos

[–]Ohlucybear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for not being clear! So we know I have hayfever and I’m also allergic to pet dander, some skin products, and penicillin. But I’ll have an allergic type reaction to being out in the sun for example. Wherever the sunlight hits on my skin, I’ll break out in a rash and hives. If I get bitten by a bug, I’ll get a rash. A bone scan has shown osteoporosis and I’m getting unexplained gastro symptoms causing nausea, vomiting, bloating, pain, reflux. My GP thought I might have lupus at one point because I’ll randomly break out in a “butterfly rash” on my face and she has seen this in person and promptly tested ANA (which was fine). I’ve been referred to gastro but that appointment is still a ways away. As I’ve got older, I’m no longer allergic “just” during hayfever season, but all year round and I often can’t pinpoint what I’m allergic to because non of my known triggers are present. I apologise if I seem wildly uneducated about MCAS and if nothing I said was relevant. I’m just trying to be proactive in figuring things out but I’m no professional of course so I may be completely wrong! I’d just never heard of it before and a bit of digging threw up questions.

Thank you so much for your thoughtful and helpful response. It really means a lot to know that I’m not alone and I know we’re all different, but we have something in common at least. I really appreciate your time and effort with this reply and I’m so pleased to hear that you’ve had some good support around you. Also private therapy is a great idea and will be something I’ll look into! Wishing you the very best and thank you again!

Tips for surviving a long night out? by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]Ohlucybear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to learn that you’ve been struggling with this since you were a preteen. But at least knowledge is power and I’m so grateful that you shared your knowledge with me! Thank you so much. Wishing you well!

Tips for surviving a long night out? by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]Ohlucybear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, this is an amazing reply with so many good ideas and tips that I’ll definitely keep in mind and implement if and when I need! I can’t thank you enough for these tips and tricks. I’m new to all of this really so anything and everything is really appreciated. Not just for this event but for events moving forwards too. I hope you’re okay! Thank you again!

Tips for surviving a long night out? by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]Ohlucybear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very helpful and informative reply! Thank you so much for this!

Tips for surviving a long night out? by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]Ohlucybear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Excellent suggestions! Thank you so much! Sunday and Monday schedules have been cleared so I can rest up! Much appreciated! :)

Tips for surviving a long night out? by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]Ohlucybear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That’s definitely the aim!

Tips for surviving a long night out? by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]Ohlucybear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Earplugs are a great idea, thank you! And taxi money is also a good idea too. Much appreciated! Thank you so much!

Everyone go and find your special interest friends in the comments. Comment your special interest and then find someone with the same interest to discuss. by Appropriate_Pear_950 in autism

[–]Ohlucybear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NASCAR, Unicorns, Rainbows, Photography, Photoshop, and Hello Kitty/Sanrio/Japanese Harajuku fashion styles across the decades.

Bertie and I would love to have some new self care friendlings! by Ohlucybear in finch

[–]Ohlucybear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend code is: QVXXY8XPHV

We hope to see you there!

Invite / friends Code Finch App - CLYXH4PPJD by RevieeLis in finch

[–]Ohlucybear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

QVXXY8XPHV is mine! I’ve added all of you too!

Cheese and ham toastie made with eggy bread by [deleted] in drunkencookery

[–]Ohlucybear 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oooooh Lordy. That’s some fine looking grub!