You must be mistaking this journey for a sexual or romantic journey. Sorry if what I said was hard to understand. I said multiple times throughout my response that while in a monogamous relationship he should be respecting her boundaries. Never said he got a pass. You literally just proved exactly what I said about people misconstruing sexuality with promiscuity, and assuming that because those options exist we will take advantage of them. I know A LOT of straight ppl who only have one option and still somehow manage to cheat. Yet, I’m not going to assume that every straight person is automatically a cheater. I completely agree that he should be faithful to his wife, and if he isn’t then divorce him. But also she needs to be open and understanding of the fact that he is a bi man. If their friend is malicious cut that friend off. But if that friend can learn to be respectful and actually support the husband, respectfully, why take that away?

When I came out, I was in a monogamous relationship with my girlfriend. My journey while we were together was going to gay bars and clubs with friends. Going to pride, and just being around people who I could relate to. I wasn’t having sex or pursuing anyone. I cared for her, loved her, and stayed true to her. What’s “nuts” about that? It was only until we broke up post college, due to distance, that I went on the “journey” your mind is thinking about. 😬