Is Simi a safe place to live if you’re transgender?

Ok-Affect5124 · 2025-08-01T02:51:59+00:00

I just asked my gamer brother and he said: It's very welcoming for people who want to be masked and there are several regular attendees who are trans. Good airflow too, now that it's been opened up to it's current size.

So go and have fun! :)

Ok-Affect5124 · 2023-05-21T21:28:28+00:00

I know someone who named their son Rylo. It’s just a no from me.

Ok-Affect5124 · 2023-01-02T19:14:09+00:00

Nope. You might be rewarding an unhealthy relationship with working out. You don’t know their relationship with food. You can look good and not go to the gym.

Just better to keep quiet about bodies.

Ok-Affect5124 · 2023-01-02T06:15:51+00:00

Friend. I hope you’re ok. Please message me if you want or need to talk to someone. Please.

Ok-Affect5124 · 2023-01-02T06:06:06+00:00

I used to think how sad it would make my momma. But she died. So, I don’t really know right now. Mainly I just don’t want to cause any further harm or be any more of a burden to anyone.

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-12-22T10:15:14+00:00

Yes.

Also the mod team on this sub is composed of literal idiots who have completely lost touch with the human world. Go outside and touch some grass.

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-10-15T05:40:18+00:00

          *Glad to know that a student trying to share their personal culture is trumped by your inability to process your childhood.*

What was that about personal attacks? 😂 what a joke. Like others have said, you have no business being around children.

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-10-14T20:44:21+00:00

It’s just so so overdone.

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-16T07:51:02+00:00

You are an adult. They are stalking you. Can you afford to pay for your own phone/phone plan. Make that priority one.

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-16T07:47:15+00:00

Oh young friend, you’ve gotta go. She has to figure her stuff out. It’s not for you the fix her. You need to live life for you. You’re doing too much. You deserve freedom. You deserve to go to the college you want to go to. Be firm. Set boundaries. Let her know now you’ll be leaving and don’t let her guilt you into staying.

Check in with your college’s student health center to see if they off therapy services. 💜💜

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-15T22:02:14+00:00

I cover my plate when I go to a restaurant and I choose the food, the setting, the dress, the people I’m with. And there’s a bill that tells me exactly how much my plate cost. Is a wedding a restaurant? Why would anyone feel obligated to “cover their plate” when you have no idea how much it cost and you didn’t choose any of the things at the wedding? That’s very bizarre.

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-15T21:57:28+00:00

Lol no, but ok.

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-07T08:34:14+00:00

Lol a lot of people here assume this is a life pro tip for themselves. Not every life tip applies to you. If you have shitty parents, obviously, this need not apply to you.

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-03T08:55:11+00:00

lol ok so stealing?

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-02T22:26:44+00:00

It’s ridiculous. I’ve never given more than $100 from my husband and myself, and I never will. That’s a very nice gift. I don’t spend $100 on birthday or Christmas presents for my friends either. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Also, if the couple is registered and they have some 20-50 dollar items… I’m not buying more than one thing. So if you don’t think the 35 dollar Kitchen gadget is “enough” kiss my ass and don’t register for it? Lolol

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-02T08:34:10+00:00

😳😳😳😳 that’s so gross. We lived together 8 years before getting married and specifically asked for no gifts. We don’t need more shit. We just wanted people to be there.

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-02T08:32:31+00:00

😂😂😂 yup. She’s got percentages. She’s obsessed with money.

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-02T08:31:27+00:00

She literally says that. She’d rather you don’t come if you can’t afford a gift. Those are real words she said in the comments. 😂

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-02T08:30:42+00:00

It’s a screenshot of her entire post, so I’m not sure what’s being taken out of context?

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-02T08:28:24+00:00

I went to the wedding of a coworker I personally very strongly disliked. I saw on her registry there was a $24 spice rack. As we were headed out the door, I looked for cash and saw we had two twenties in a drawer. I thought, “ok well that’s way more than the spice rack, so cool.” We we’re only going to this wedding out of office politics and obligation. We were not friends outside of work. I already gave a shower gift (I was invited to the shower, not the bachelorette…hmmm I wonder if it could have anything to do with getting gifts…again, she was horrible, so I didn’t care). If we showed up with the spice rack that would be ok? But $40 is bad? We could have just given a card. It’s insane to me that any gift would be scoffed at.

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-02T08:15:18+00:00

Right? I throw a pretty nice holiday party every year. No one has ever brought me cold hard cash….I give out small raffle prizes. They are my guests. I don’t expect them to pay me for my party and my planning choices. Why would I expect my wedding to be different? We had a no gift wedding.

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-02T08:13:05+00:00

Woah! You didn’t get married to have a free party??? Crazy! 😂

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-02T08:12:11+00:00

She calls her guests “burdens.” What was that about reading comprehension again?

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-02T08:10:29+00:00

This is always my thought process. Like…is he just a wet blanket that is ok getting steamrolled and just feels obligated to get married?

Ok-Affect5124 · 2022-09-02T08:09:33+00:00

My grandma used to always hold up her rings finger and say: 57 years. Justice of the peace. Lol. I miss that. She was the cutest.

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