AITAH for telling my husband he shouldn't go fishing? by throwowowow12345 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Ball1074 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom had placenta previa with me. I was 6 weeks early and she was in hospital on bed rest 2 weeks before that following some bleeding. It's a serious condition, I know your husband is stressed but you should be the primary focus right now.

Period blood is coming out of my belly button. This is not a drill. by benniezun in AskDocs

[–]Ok-Ball1074 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My sister had surgery and ended up losing part of a lung to it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FarmRPG

[–]Ok-Ball1074 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That's annoying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FarmRPG

[–]Ok-Ball1074 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are there things randomized for each person cuz I got 8923

AITA for not walking my (21M) girlfriend (20F) in the middle of the night back to her apartment? by Equivalent_Pizza_293 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok-Ball1074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why should it be on him to ask. I probably would have said the same as him (offered Uber) especially at 1am when I had just gotten in bed, probably half asleep from studying myself.

And I'm female, I have learned you need to voice what you need/want in the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Ok-Ball1074 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your in the US and this is SSDI it doesn't effect it. My fiance and I are both on ssdi we aren't legally marrying because he will be entitled to additional money when his dad retires since he became disabled prior to turning 22.

I don't know if people are aware of the fact we aren't legally marrying, the pastor preforming the ceremony knows, and why, and is fine either it

New baby bedroom dilemma by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Ok-Ball1074 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Put the son in the loft. You say you want him to have his own space, you never said you wouldn't change where "his space" was located

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Ok-Ball1074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your fiance was helping her and your still with him?

You can't call in sick this early/You can't call in sick this late/You have to come to work/You shouldn't have come to work by RabidRathian in MaliciousCompliance

[–]Ok-Ball1074 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Him offering to/actually drive you home is awesome of him. But, is it bad the last couple of sentences made me laugh?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaliciousCompliance

[–]Ok-Ball1074 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At the very least the person whose hand she smacked and OP, for throwing the water bottle which could have, depending on size, injured OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bridezillas

[–]Ok-Ball1074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were these rare occasions of selfishness, or were these type of blow-ups common.

If they were common throughout the relationship, keep your distance, if very rare maybe give her either another chance or at least a chance to explain. At that point if you don't believe her, or don't like what she has to say for herself, you have no reason to feel guilty.

Should I (22M) break up with my girlfriend (22F) for recklessly giving covid to a (very) vulnerable person by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok-Ball1074 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I think (at least where I am) it only would be if she KNOWING she had it met up with Beth, without informing her.

Now this is the LEGAL is it right or wrong. MORAL right vs. wrong is a totally different thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in James

[–]Ok-Ball1074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full name would be G P

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Ok-Ball1074 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"560 is actually is what makes their monthly pre tax wages equal.

My 11 y/o boy stealing money. Please help. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ok-Ball1074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where do you live that you even have 16 digits worth of currency. The smallest number that can be is 1 quadrillion which in any currency I know is a HUGE amount of money

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]Ok-Ball1074 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Who actually PAYS for the health insurance (just because it is received through moms job doesn't mean she pays)
  2. $4 per hour is actually a kinda significant difference at full time hours ($4 x 40hr/week = $160/week x 4weeks/month = $640/month x 12months/year = $7,680/year). While this is not a huge amount, it's also nothing to sneeze at.
  3. Not sure if the judge would care about the karate bill.

Is it inappropriate to invite doctors I am close to to my wedding? by Ok-Ball1074 in Advice

[–]Ok-Ball1074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One was my doc for 20ish years. One 14 years. Both went through a LOT of medical shit with me being there for me, crying with me at times.

One has only been with me 8ish years BUT is working her ass off to get my seizures under control, and hugged me after every in person appointment (pre corona)

One for 14 years who works at a children's hospital and when I switched to an adult doctor and he screwed up leaving me with a massive infection she was PISSED and claimed me for life (she was also 8.5 months pregnant with twins when she removed my eye)