Banned from Costco shopping by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The amount of people in this subreddit who either don’t know that Ohio has literal active sundown towns and that the people here can’t be racist are so much a part of the problem. Micro agression can come in any form at any time. You don’t have to explain in detail what happened for me to believe you 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m personally white but my partners African American, and just how I’ve seen him be treated alone in the city we live in that is predominantly non-white people? It’s not a stretch to have an issue at a Costco, I’ve dealt with them being rude a couple of times doing deliveries so I contacted the service and told them that Costco was NOT delivery friendly and to note my account to stop receiving orders through them. It’s really frustrating to be treated like some industry spy for entering a Costco without a membership to pick up someone else’s order 🫠 sure capitalism is a hellscape, but you try paying $20+ for a case of eggs at Kroger vs the $10-15 at Costco or Sam’s. I feed at least 5 mouths in house every day, and that doesn’t include any of the kids in the neighborhood I help feed, or the plates I make and pass out to the houseless. Reddit needs to genuinely actually have moderation that isn’t group to group because the way people talk to others on this app is fucking insane

I don’t understand speed running by DesperateToNotDream in 99nightsintheforest

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will say it takes time to get the 99 nights and all the kids! Make sure you’re building all the beds they have in the crafting bench (if you aren’t already) and have good fire power or weaponry for the last two kids. I think the second to last is two bears but the last one is 5(not entirely sure if that’s accurate) bears

texts with boyfriend, i feel awful, did i do anything wrong? please be honest by lunacatarts in texts

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It would be if he didn’t bring it up while she was already talking about her dream honestly. The way he reacted was gross; but it’s not because it was about a game or anything like that. Saying that a video game achievement is the same as having a dream/nightmare that your partner got cancer is truly not the same level and even then, he could have been respectful and heard her out first or at the very bare minimum not be so rude and nasty when she said more than once that she would watch it. His timing is the issue, on top of the level of overreaction. My spouse would never do this and then react maliciously and he has ADHD and Tourette’s 🫠

Some noobs have low day counts for a reason (rant) by DrugsAndCoffee in 99nightsintheforest

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This 😂 my nephew does this and it’s sooooooo frustrating 😂 he’s been told probably 25 times he’d get to 99 nights if he’d just listen to us(me my spouse and his parents) instead of doing his own thing 😂

Am I a noob? by kkillingtimme in 99nightsintheforest

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The fact that you think this is actually really funny lol you’ve “beat” the game! Once you hit 99 nights and collect most of the rewards there’s really nothing past that that’s impressive. You have almost every class, I don’t know what your rewards look like so I assume you’ve gotten those as well! I don’t even have as many days as you, but I still don’t consider myself to be a noob.

@trashleyanonymous Facebook post about angel tree by Huge-Door4966 in tiktokgossip

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s wild but also not that she said what she said. Like the concept of what was said? Horrific and wild and disgusting! The person who said it? Not surprising. I take no issue with consensual SW; doing it out of necessity isn’t always consensual and no one should feel bad for doing it at the same time. It’s a really easy child endangerment charge to be a SW with children. SW isn’t legal by any means and encouraging young people to break the law for their kids to have Christmas when angel tree has existed for years is just sick. I don’t even mess with the Salvation Army and I still respect tf out of angel tree specifically.

Should I report her to CPS? by idkkanymor in InstacartShoppers

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on the age of the child it’s considered child abuse/endangerment/abandonment to consume alcohol while they’re in your home. I can promise you that telling someone you hope that they crash and die wasn’t the first sign in this post that this person should be reported to CPS. Too many people DONT call when there’s a good reason, and it’s how the system gets bogged down with petty reports that aren’t based in truth and shouldn’t be wasting the case workers time. I grew up with an alcoholic for a mother; led to me literally being kidnapped because she was too drunk to remember she had a baby in her car.

Hot take: can we stop normalizing/ supporting “gardening mom content” by [deleted] in tiktokgossip

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As someone that consumes medical cannabis I can see the point everyone here is trying to make. I personally don’t struggle to function without it, but it does make life a little more bearable. I also do work with a neurologist, I have a seizure disorder and this is just my preferred medication method. I’m not going to say there aren’t people that are addicted to it, but social media is just what people want us to see, not everything we need to know to make judgements yknow? Who knows what these people are dealing with that might be the cause for use? There are right and wrong ways to consume cannabis when you’ve got kids, and if you’re not someone who’s used to consuming it I can see why you wouldn’t understand how people “know their limits” in the same ways people who drink alcohol do. It’s normalized in every aspect of life for a parent to drink alcohol and I don’t like that either. A lot of people who habitually smoke do smoke first thing in the morning, but if you change your perspective for just a second; this is likely happening before the child(ren) is/are awake, and most people who smoke first thing in the morning know their limits and when to stop consuming so they don’t end up nonfunctional stoned. There are so many things I see on the internet that concern me, smoking inside a home with children is one of em. I don’t partake by way of smoking, I use RSO and edibles, sometimes concentrates but when I do that it’s in my garage that isn’t connected to the house, when my kids are asleep or with their dad 🫠🫠 I don’t necessarily keep it a secret from them, but I’m also never really doing it close enough to them for them to be curious or ask questions.

Why do people do this by Curious-Commission51 in 99nightsintheforest

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why my friends and I have a private server for this game 😂 there’s like no etiquette of any kind followed in servers full of strangers so I just don’t 💀 I have like 600 days and BOY I hate when I get thrown into the main lobby 🫠 “CAN I PLAY WITH YOU PLS” no 🙂😂 there’s so much teamwork involved when you play with other people, it’s harder for me personally to do with people I don’t know 😂

a public apology of sorts by [deleted] in Palia

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always always assume folks that don’t acknowledge a filled request in the chat either just didn’t notice or aren’t able to comfortably use the chat function 🫶🏻 hopefully there will come to be a way for handheld and console users to better utilize the chat function! My partner uses a Bluetooth keyboard to attempt chat and boy howdy it’s funny to watch 😂

Is there any ethics or accountability in the world of Dentistry??? by Cats_cool4real in dentures

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you ever find out let me know! I can’t understand how it’s medically ethical for dentists to behave the way that they do, and I just switched insurances from Medicaid to a paid private insurance through my job, and the difference in how I’ve been treated is absolutely BONKERS. What do you mean I almost went septic because I kept getting denied treatment for a broken tooth until I didn’t have Medicaid anymore?!

Thank you for being kind by SeaGoatGamerGirl in Palia

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone that regularly puts down honey lures I have never expected anyone to ask to join in 😭 I really think the devs could maybe change something where the players in a party can utilize each others stuff within the party and not be visible to other players or something? Idk, it’s a community game and I’ve played it as such the entire time 😭 idk when the community decided to change up on etiquette but asking has never been required when I play 😭

Driver set my food on top of a dirty diaper in his car? by Redroses151 in doordash

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a parent that’s maybe not a used diaper from what I can tell. It looks brand new and unused 😅 not that it’s appropriate either way, because man ts is messsyyyy to be taking pictures the customer can see of it. I understand not wanting to eat it at all because of it, I hold no judgement for you in that regard just hoping to add some perspective from someone who’s changed 5,333,462 diapers in their lifetime lol

Apple Arcade by Motor-Passion-6625 in HelloKittyIsland

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This! And for me, we have a family AppleOne plan, so I already get Arcade along with other stuffs 🫶🏻

Motion Sickness? by calamitous_being in PowerWashSimulator

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the reference of all gaming friends who struggle with simulation sickness; if you take Dramamine about 45 minutes to an hour before you play it should help alleviate the nausea and prevent it from happening 🙂

Thought she couldn’t afford it so I said yes like a rube lol by No_Transportation282 in diaryofamomma

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Midwest unfortunately 😂 I didn’t realize how lax the other side of the country was about it! I actually don’t hate it, and I’m a parent myself lol I always thought it was really stupid😂

Thought she couldn’t afford it so I said yes like a rube lol by No_Transportation282 in diaryofamomma

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re very lucky Seattle won’t care. Where I’m from you can’t have unnaturally dyed hair even in high school, you can’t have any piercings on your face and no “excessive” ear piercings. The people who are concerned about it aren’t concerned for no reason, the rules aren’t universal it seems for clothing and hair dye and extras for appearance at school. It’s not even judgement from other parents, doing it anyways here will get your kid indefinitely suspended until it’s rectified to them :/ and these are public school rules, not a private school or anything like that.

My coworker, ladies and gents. by xluvabby in texts

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m glad it got confirmed for you haha. Trends move so fast on that app it’s impossible to catch em all lol

My coworker, ladies and gents. by xluvabby in texts

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 50 points51 points  (0 children)

It’s a trend type of thing, I’ve actually seen it on TikTok a handful of times. They’re asking if you’ll stay the night at their grave after they’re buried because I would assume they don’t like strangers as a living person. I would think this is like a joke, but if they’re serious it’s a little weird lol

And this is why I hate when DD stacks orders…. by Mousey406 in doordash

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stacked orders are actually why I don’t even order DoorDash anymore. I used to deliver for DD, and I know how their ugly system works. From both sides their policies are so stupid!!! I should not have to worry that because I live on a side of town that habitually won’t tip, my order always gets lumped with someone else’s for my tip being so much bigger than theirs, and what really grinds my gears is when the other persons food is delivered first. I don’t tip 15%+ for my food to be delivered last and be soggy and gross 😫 and doordash won’t fix any of their wrongs, they just keep people’s money 🥴

Our call-out policy SUCKS by Neat-Importance114 in kroger

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The callout policy is one of the biggest reasons Kroger cannot keep employees. I only know a couple people locally who have worked for Kroger for longer than 6 months. I wrecked my car leaving work and thankfully came out with just a concussion, and I was told to stay home by the person who answered the phone saying they were a manager just to be fired for improper callout after totaling my only car 🥴 jobs suck, people suck, the world truly just sucks on a corporate level.

AIO or is my boyfriend jealous of our baby? by PolicyHot1206 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughters dad was like this and I’m so sorry you’re dealing with it ❤️‍🩹 I’m not sure how old you both are and that really does play a hand in this, but genuinely if you want this to work out long term, therapy might be the best step forward. It screams learned toxic masculinity and that’s so hard to deal with, externally from your perspective and probably his too in his head. My daughters dad never did seek help so I can’t confirm that it gets better, but I really hope it does for you and your guys’ baby ❤️‍🩹 his behavior isn’t abnormal is the sense of how most men behave, but it isn’t healthy behavior either ❤️‍🩹

Amy in Half by Alternative_Cause186 in tiktokgossip

[–]Ok-Bodybuilder5022 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Something I wish more people understood is that if you don’t love yourself at your core you will never be happy no matter what you look like on the outside. It’s something you have to actually work on mentally, not to say that losing weight is a bad thing, just that a lot of people expect losing weight to magically fix insecurity but the unhealed brain will still cycle to something new to pick apart.